hormone crash after ERPC

[Blu10]

Thanks for your kind words, you girls are so amazing! Ive just woken up from a big nap with DS. Still no pain. Obly pain i had was in my right hip going round into my back last week and all that has gone since I bled which is odd. No further bleeding today but i swear at 1am I thought Id end up in A&E. I lost more blood in 2 hours than ive ever lost with a period or my first miscarriage, it was so scary.
I promise to update you all tomorrow, just wish I could have a straightforward pregnancy, feel.ive had my faur share of sh*t!! X

 

[bernie86]

Blu- I will be praying for good news tmw! Im really sorry you are going through this. I know how scared I would be going through that. try and stay positive, because the lack of cramps is a good sign still. we will be anxiously waiting to hear from you tmw.

Jaspie- glad you will be getting down to business this week! fx!!!!

Hopie- Im so glad you are getting your dad the extra help he needs. He will start to feel better soon! Thanks for asking about my Mom, shes doing ok. she Had to close down her salon for good about two weeks ago, because it wasnt making enough money to support itself and with her medical stuff going on she couldnt afford to invest anymore $ into it. and with her not feeling well she was unable to be there and manage properly so I think it was for the best. She seems alot better this week and will probably start treatments again next month or so.

Fit- I wouldnt try the doppler too early because it was hard for me to find him sometimes even at 12 weeks. Now I can usually find him in one place pretty quickly... but it might be more scary than helpful trying too early. I cant wait for you to do the panorama test... it will make you feel so relaxed knowing all is well

I have may 14 week appt in a couple hours, and this one I am finally excited about. the last two appts were so stressful! but know I can feel the "flutters" which I think feels more like having a little fish in your belly swimming around lol. I let you girls know later how it goes, have no clue what the appt entails.

 

[Blu10]

Oh Bernie Im so glad your feeling flutters, such a lovely feeling and reassuring x

 

[bernie86]

Hi girls! had the appt and we just did the doppler for the heart beat, and his doppler is so much better so it was fun to hear it so clear and he told me what sound was him moving, and I could feel it at the same time! but he's 150 BPM and everything is looking good, except I didnt care for the scale!!! need to start walking and exercising a little more even when Im sleepy

 

[jaspie]

That's great news Bernie! Sounds like a wonderful appointment!

Hopie I'm glad your dad is somewhere where he can get some help. Thinking of you and hoping things get easier xx

Fit hope you have a great appointment on Thursday! And how exciting you get to do the panorama soon! Wish we had it here in the UK.

How are you feeling this evening Blu? Hope there's still no more bleeding or any pain. Hope tonight is uneventful. Good luck for tomorrow I'll be thinking of you xx

 

[Blu10]

Hi Girls - amazing news here, by some miracle our baby is perfect and waved at us! Were over the moon and shell shocked. Theres no explanation for the huge bleed and no guarantee it wont happen again but we have another scan next thursday. Also put forward so baby due christmas day xx

 

[jaspie]

Ahhhhh!!! SUCH wonderful news!! I bet the feeling seeing your baby wave at you was unreal after the last couple of days! Wow. And a Christmas day baby!! So happy and relieved for you xxx

 

[Blu10]

Thanks Jaspie, there have been a fair few happy tears. Im celebrating now with a cuppa and bacon sarnie!! Hope youre ok?xx

 

[jaspie]

Woohoo for celebrations! I could eat a bacon sandwich now! Such a relief you have a scan next week too! All good here, just impatient to get closer to ovulation! I way prefer the tww to the wait to ovulate! Cm still mainly creamy slightly watery so i guess fri/sat ovulation...Bd'd last night and going to carry on every night this week I'm not missing a chance!

 

[Blu10]

You go girl! I really have everything crossed that this is your month Jaspie, we need another BFP! Xx

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Blu I am so thrilled for you and so relieved Baby Blu is okay!!! So glad you got to see baby wave; that must have been amazing.

Fingers crossed Jaspie, it is your turn for a BFP!

Bernie so glad your appointment went so well...I have doctor's office envy. The doctors/midwives here don't have u/s machines at all or dopplers that are that high in quality at their offices here. It must be amazing to feel those little flutters!

Hopie hope all is well.

I have a fear of spending the money on the Pamorama test and then finding out later that baby had already stopped developing/no longer had a heartbeat but don't know what I'm supposed to do about it. In an ideal world I'd get a reassurance scan before doing tje test but even if I could get a requisition for one (which is highly doubtful) they book up 3 weeks in advance so I'd be 12 weeks anyway by the time I got in to see anyone...and then it would be time for my nt u/s anyway. That's why I'm hoping by some miracle to find a heartbeat on the doppler when it arrives. I know it's way too early but I found baby at 10.5 weeks last time. I'm pretty petite and have a short torso, so perhaps that helps.

 

[Blu10]

Thanks Fit! Were so so happy.
I am sure everything will be just grand this time for you, how many weeks are you now?
Bernie hearing that hb must have been amazing! X

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Thanks Blu! I am exactly 9 weeks today.

 

[hopie2015]

Awesome Blu!!!! such amazing news!! how incredible to see your baby wave! congrats on Christmas due date! great you have another appt next week. So happy for you guys.

Jaspie..we all have everything crossed for you that this month is it!!

Bernie..sorry your mom had to sell her salon but good you know it was for the best. What an amazing achievement to open up her own business! Good she can get more rest until she gets all her energy back.
feeling baby move must be amazing!!! and dont worry about the scale. i avoid them at all costs!

Fit- yes maybe you could hear heartbeat when doppler arrives! your size could help out from what ive read. when does doppler arrive?

So glad to see the great news today! blu..that cracked me up..soon to be size of a small country and you're still peeing for England!!!! too funny!

looking forward to updates. have fun Jaspie and some wine this weekend....enjoy it while you can!

 

[jaspie]

Yep i feel so positive for you fit! Everything will be wonderful. Happy 9 weeks! I feel so positive for us all this time, i just need to get a bfp and hopie too when you're feeling ready!

 

[bernie86]

Blu- Im so relieved for you!!! thats wonderful news!!! Don't they just steal your heart when you get to see them moving around happy as can be in there?!
Fit- I know what you mean about having the fear of doing all that testing and something still going wrong, but keep the faith! If you have to wait til 12 weeks anyway I think you will be able to get a good HB listen in before then.
Jaspie- I think you are right on track... The "do it every day" method worked for us! Do it the 2 days after ovulation just kicks too lol you never know

 

[Blu10]

Thanks Bernie, was a big relief and lovely to see movement. I think I may have a urine infection so ill drop a sample in tomorrow, feels like its one thing after another x

 

[bernie86]

Hopefully you dont Blu, but I know from experience that those like to show up during stressful times! drink tons of water and 100% cranberry juice and maybe it will keep it from flaring up. and relax and enjoy that little nugget being healthy!!!
Hope all you ladies have been having a nice week! Its getting close to the weekend again, all I can think about is sleeping in on saturday morning

 

[Blu10]

Go Bernie, we also have a lie in this weekend as DS is having a sleepover at nannies 😉 whats the betting im awake at 6!
Went to docs today, on antibiotics for a urine infection now. Hopefully once these kick in ill feel more human. Hope you all have a fab weekend girlies... oh ps, bleedings stopped whoop whoop x

 

[hopie2015]

That is so great Blu, bleeding has stopped! Hope the antibiotics are kicking in and you're feeling much better now? Glad you get to sleep in and rest up this weekend!
How are you doing, Fit?
Glad you can sleep in tomorrow Bernie. Enjoy!
Jaspie- have a fun weekend..with lots of wine!

As for me, same old. Hoping next week is better.

xx