hormone crash after ERPC

[jaspie]

Well done on sending in the job application! Good luck when's the closing date?

I have a confession....Tuesday's frer will most likely be Monday's frer I just can't help it! I know Tuesday would show any progression better but if it's a new pregnancy it should surely be at least a bit darker tomorrow. I'll buy more for Tuesday
Hope you get af soon! Or a bfp??! Any chance this month?

 

[hopie2015]

Yay! So we just have to wait until tomorrow for your frer, Jaspie..not Tuesday! So thanks.. frer is the super early type of test. I have only bought the cheap-o ones in the dollar store! Yes, if new pregnancy, the line should be darker tomorrow, would think?
Good idea...vino and date night. Afraid missed this month's time..He went to his dad's. I will be passed out I am sure by time he gets back. Pathetic but true. Nothing gets between me and my sleep lately!!

Is today Mother's Day in UK? If so, I am sorry I didn't wish you a happy Mother's Day, Blu!! I didn't know it was on a different date than here in the US.
Fingers crossed you get that interview soon.

I ate so much Chinese food downtown today that I am in one bad food coma. My goal this week is to start running. Sort of necessity since all I seem to do is eat lately.

Hope you guys have great Mondays!

 

[Blu10]

Update jaspie????? I would be the same hunni!! Haha.
Ah thanks Hopie thats sweet, yes mothers day was yesterday, would love to think were all celebrating it with a bubba next year - when is it in the US?
At least you can go for it next month now Hopie and I hope you will feel in a better place re trying.
Im confident that ill be shortlisted based on my qualifications and experience but still have to get through the interview process - theres no closing date listed but its usually a two week turn around. Im going to have an informal visit with the manager and team tomorrow afternoon.
Hope you all have a fab monday, I have 2 days off after today and my munchkins birthday to look forward too 🎁🎂 xxx

 

[hopie2015]

Nice job Blu! Best of luck meeting with team tomorrow.. and 2 days off and your little one's birthday..whoo--hoo!
Yes, perhaps next month I will be in a better frame of mind to start trying anyway.
Glad you had a nice Mother's Day out! Here it is in May.

Jaspie is really keeping us in suspense!!!

Hope your Mondays are going well. Cold and gloomy here..Decided to stay in the city on my own.. DF is away and don't have it in me mentally today to go stay at my parent's and help out..Sounds terrible, I know. I feel like i just want to be alone all day in this tiny apartment.

Talk soon!

 

[jaspie]

Oh Hopie are you ok? You sound sad it won't always be this hard the gloomy weather won't help either. I'd wrap up in a duvet, get some chocolate and watch some films or trashy tv. That usually helps me. Oh and wine too!

Sorry to keep you waiting guys! Well blu you've seen already
I'm cautiously optimistic....The line on the frer is darker than yesterday though still pretty faint so I will not fully believe it until it's darker again but today i am hopeful!

 

[hopie2015]

Wow-- soo exciting! The line is darker! That is such an incredibly good sign. Can't wait to hear tomorrow!!!!

Thanks so much Jaspie.. I'll be alright. Your plan sounds great. Stay in bed and will do just that this afternoon. Think I was running on auto pilot so long, helping parents out, working out for crazy amount of time each day.. I feel as if I have totally crashed! Just need some alone time.

Everything crossed for you!!!!!!!

 

[Blu10]

I think you have grabbed our first group rainbow jaspie and im so delighted!! 😊
hopie its been cool and gloomy here too today, just got home and looking forward to my days off!
Ill make a deal with you.. . If you go 4 it next cycle, i will too. We gotta keep up with jaspie now 😉 xx

 

[jaspie]

Aww thanks ladies i will keep you updated! Really hope this is the first of many rainbows for this group. I just bought 4 frers and 4 superdrug tests and the guy serving me was like "just making sure eh?!" LOL well yes actually

 

[hopie2015]

LOL! That is hilarious Jaspie!!! Wow- 8. Okay..we will definitely have definitive answer soon. Can't wait for you!!!

Blu- sounds like a plan! I will get over the fear full in April for sure. We have a deal??!

Need something to look forward to. I can't get myself to call recruiters. I have no desire to work in corporate again. With my job ending I felt so sure that my next step, my next calling in life was motherhood. Then it all just suddenly ended that day I left work for my appointment. I have to believe there is still a chance...still a hope. It just all felt so right. I need something to move forward to..look forward to.

April it is!!! Seems March it is for Jaspie!!!!!!

 

[bernie86]

Happy Monday Ladies! looks like I missed a lot this weekend. I dont really get online much when Im away from my desk. But glad to hear you all are doing pretty great! I had an OK weekend, a little stressful with my family but nothing we cant handle! Glad to hear you are applying for the job blu! and happy mothers day, its not til may here Hopie- hopefully some nice relaxing on your own will be good! Im glad you both are planning on trying again next month! Jaspie thats so great that its getting darker I agree with the others you are definitely our first BFP!!! I broke down and tested this morning( with just a cheapy strip test) and got a BFN... its only 10 DPO so all hope is not out the window but now I know Im ok if its not our month... because my body just might not be ready yet. I still feel slightly nauseated and have most of the weekend and slight cramps, but nothing else out of the ordinary. But this could be PMS so whatever. My hubs and I also decided we are not trying like we did this month again... we are just going to BD to our hearts desire and not think about it too much... it worked for our first BFP! I get to caught up in planning that its not good for my stress level with everything else going on in my life...

 

[hopie2015]

Good to see your update Bernie. I'm sorry test was a bfn..It is interesting though you have been feeling slightly nauseated.. Still could be too early but definitely as you said, if AF does arrive, could be that your body just wants more time. So your plan sounds perfect! Last times we got pg as well..it sort of just happened like that. No stress, no pressure..Not thinking about it too much..Perfect.
Sure don't need an added stress in life.
Sorry weekend was a bit stressful with family and hope all resolves soon.
I do hear you with that!

I am taking time to myself today. Too isolated and it's rather depressing, but I don't feel like see/doing a thing!
Take care and keep posted~

 

[Blu10]

Yes we defo have a deal Hopie.
Jaspie thats so funny, have you done a digital?
AF has arrived here right on schedule 👍

 

[bernie86]

Hopie- don't get depressed! do something fun that you can only do when you are home by yourself!!!! I think you need to dance around the house, singing in your undies lol! with a bottle of wine Blu- so glad to hear the witch came on time!!! hope you feel as reset as I did the day mine came!!! And Hopie I do find the slight nausea to be odd. But I dont know everything is different in general, and I didn't have any symptoms at all last time until I hit 6 weeks so its hard to know what is what. But anyway seeing the BFN didnt really bother me... trying cant be my focus anymore I need to really help my Mom get through her next two treatments and help with my little brother and we will just hope it happens when it happens. this is my head today! lol

 

[hopie2015]

You are such an amazing daughter/sister, Bernie! You are soo strong too. And always such a positive attitude.. I am learning from you! You are right- I shouldn't be depressed like this.. I think your dancing around here sounds like exactly what I should do!!!
I didn't have any symptoms either until 6 1/2 weeks and whoa- did the nausea, etc. hit hard then!
I know what you mean by feeling re-set when AF came. Felt at least good tht my body got back on track right on schedule.
Blu- glad this has happened to you.. Our bodies are back on track! Glad we have a deal!

 

[jaspie]

I have a great vision of hopie dancing around the house in her undies singing and waving a bottle of wine! That sounds really fun! I'm home alone for a bit too as OH goes on for his operation tomorrow so I'll be without him for 1.5 weeks

Love your plan Bernie, the relaxed approach will fit in perfectly with everything else going on in your life and will be fun rather than another source of stress. You're still v early for a bfp and it is interesting you're feeling nauseous! Fingers crossed.

Hopie i know what you mean about the job situation. I was sticking out a job i wasn't bothered about cos i knew I'd be leaving on maternity leave and might not be coming back. And then it was all gone. And i was stuck in the job with no end in sight. Luckily the secondment opportunity came up. I think if you can afford it then take as much time as you need to get something you want to do.
Blu yay for af being on time! Happy cd1 of your ttc rainbow cycle! Your body is bang on schedule, awesome.

I haven't done a digital! Too scared! Will wait a couple of days i think just to make sure it really is happening! I'm so wary!

 

[bernie86]

Lol Dancing alone is seriously the best! I rarely get the occasion to be alone since my BIL and SIL rent a room from us but when I do watch out! hahaha Thank you for the words of encouragement! The family will get through and mom will be good if having a moody teenager doesnt kill her! I think you ladies are some of the strongest and I truely enjoy chatting with you girls.... I will continue to pray for good positive things! and Jaspie we are all dying for you to get you confirmation dark line!!! woo hoo!

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Happy Mother’s Day Blu! Had no idea it was earlier in the UK – LOL, I just thought you were really organized, shopping 2 months in advance!

Sorry about the BFN Bernie, but it’s early and could easily change!! Keep us posted.

Hope you are feeling better hopie. ((Hugs)). It is so hard when we plan for one thing only to have it all yanked away from us without warning. I think motherhood is your new path, it has just been delayed by a bit. And thanks so much for your well wishes regarding me getting a BFP – I struggle to believe it will happen because when we tried for so long before it didn’t, and it means so much when you and others believe in me – it helps me believe too.

Exciting news Jaspie, keep us posted!! I hope that line keeps on getting darker! Too funny what the cashier said, ha ha.

Ugh, it finally occurred to DH and I that now that I am no longer pregnant I can help out with scooping the cat boxes again. Nooooo! If that doesn’t give me extra motivation to get pregnant again ASAP I don’t know what will. DH was grumbling about missing the hot tub (I refuse to let him use it because I don’t want it killing his swimmers) and I told him that the faster he knocks me up again the faster he can go in the hot tub again, LOL. I find laughing about it takes some of the stress/pressure off. We aren’t trying (and are preventing) until next month though.

 

[Blu10]

Oh fit that last post made me giggle... i have visions of your OH strutting around in his speedos wondering if he can sneak in a quick a 5 mins lol. And you girls dancing in around in your pants with vino.... have you seen bridget jones' diary? Haha.
I definitely feel that the reset button has been pressed and Im looking at that as a positive thing. It took 40 days for AF to arrive after a finished my BCP so Im glad it was quicker this time. 30-32 days seems fairly normal for me.
Jaspie your progression is looking good, i have everything crossed for you xx
Hopie i hope youre feeling better today? I know you will get a sticky baby next time.
Bernie - love to you and your mum. I hope she copes ok with her treatment. Hopie is right you sound like a fab support and i think aometimes the not overthinking things where TTC is concerned can be a good thing.
Have a great day buddies xx

 

[jaspie]

I am currently having a freak out as I don't think it's progressed enough. It is just about darker but not as dark as I'd expect if this was a healthy pregnancy it's still really faint so I'm still questioning a bit if it's even a new pregnancy at all! My head is in a knot I managed to get a drs appointment at 8.30 today to see if she can do bloods for me or has any advice. So will let you know!
I'm ready for af to come and the reset button to be pressed too if this is not good news! I won't even be sad i just want to know what's going on!

Fit: noooo re the cat boxes! Yuk! Maybe you can tell him you can't when ttc either

 

[Blu10]

Try not to stress! It definitely looks like a BFP to me. The tests are getting darker not lighter x