hormone crash after ERPC

[Blu10]

Hopie im so glad that mum is inproving and continue to send good vibes for her kidneys to get better, hope she can come home soon and you can get back to some normalitt. How are you feeling hun?

Jaspie - thumbs up to AF, sounds like your body is ready for another pregnancy as soon as you can try! Very exciting about your holiday, cant wait to hear all about it (jaelous.com haha).

Bernie please try not to worry, theres absolutely no reason for your baby not to be absolutely perfect and i feel you had your share of bad luck already! Whats your due date? Just imagibe by crimbo your pudding will be here 😄

Fit - i am thinking of you and your family. Hope yourr doing ok?

AFM - so far so good. I have no urge to keep testing etc as I feel pregnant and feel like its all going to be ok (hope that comment doesnt come back and bite me on the ass!!). I also have a feeling that im having another little boy. I havent even booked at docs etc yet so will do that next week x

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Thanks for thinking of me ladies xoxo, really appreciate it more than you can know.

Blu and Bernie I really believe your little beans are going to stick.

Jaspie glad af is on track and you and OH are going on a great vacay. Count me as another jealous one, I've never been to any of those places.

Hopie I'll pray that your mom continues to improve - glad you're getting so much quality time with her.

I have been feeling kind of yuck all week...honestly a bit like I did later on in my last pregnancy. At first I was mad at my body for messing with me as it's way too early, but I decided I should appreciate my body instead and actually wrote a list of things I'm grateful to it for.

Last night I had a real "moment." Couldn't find my purse anywhere in the house so finally went across the street to check my car...and there it was sitting in plain sight on the passenger seat. I am NEVER careless like that with my purse, even if I'm blind drunk I never let it out of my sight...what the eff?

Last night I POAS and it was completely BFN. This morning (9dpo) decided to try another so peed in a cup...and promptly dropped the first test in the cup. Figuring that test was no good I did another then crawled back into bed for 35 minutes. Well, when I got up there was the faintest shadow of a 2nd line on both tests.

I suppose I will buy a FRER today, don't even know what to think!

 

[jaspie]

O.M.G!!!! Fit!!! Eeeek! A frer is needed immediately! Wishing you all the luck in the world that this is your bfp!!!! Can't wait to see your update xx

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Jaspie, eek indeed!!!

I couldn`t wait and bought one before work - the FRER is a

I know it is super early and could turn out to be a chemical, but when we tried before it was a year and a half of BFN after BFN...never even a hint of a 2nd line!

 

[bernie86]

Fit- Thats very exciting!!!! congrats! Im glad you did it before work and didnt leave us in suspense!!!!!! 3/5 now! all the prayers and happy thoughts are bringing good Luck! Jaspie and hopie will be next once Fiance and Mom finish healing!( which I believe both will be happy and healthy soon enough)
Blu- I'm due 11/27 (the day after Thanksgiving) and thank you for the encouragement! I Think this baby is coming home with us in November too! I just get that doubtful voice in the back of my head, and I have to shut that off! when would you be due blu? fit? Christmas babies, right?
Yay for getting knocked up! lol

 

[Blu10]

Arghhhhh omg omg omg totally mega mega excited for you fit!!!! Bittersweet i suppose with the passing of your fil but im sure he has sent you a gift! Big congratulations babe, when are you due??
Bernie i am due around christmas im guessing 21st-24th based on ovulation. So exciting now.
3 out of 5 BFP's and I know Jaspie and Hopie are next ☺😁☺😁☺

 

[jaspie]

Yay Fit!!!! I am so so happy for you! SO glad it happened quickly for you! Congrats so exciting!

3 out of 5 bfps is AWESOME! Go us! Yep I'm sure hopie and i will be following shortly with 2016 babies!!

 

[Blu10]

I sure hope so Jaspie, fingers crossed hun xx

 

[hopie2015]

Oh my goodness!!! FIT!!!! Congratulations!!!! WoW!
I am so thrilled for you. I know it is a beyond difficult time for you guys and this is such an amazingly happy and exciting surprise for both of you. I am praying hard for you!!

Wow -- 3 BFP's. Once Jaspie can ttc again, she is most definitely next!
That is excellent Jaspie about AF! Once DF is ready, we will be celebrating your good news!

Can't thank you all enough for the prayers, good thoughts and positive encouragement! We're in her hospital room..there is a far away view of the water, so nice and peaceful..she's sleeping. Praying her kidneys return and she gets out to rehab within a couple of weeks.

Going to be one special Thanksgiving weekend for you, Bernie!! Good you are shutting off the thoughts when they come. Those thoughts are only natural. We just have to say off/out to them and redirect to a positive thought.

I must say the past almost 5 weeks have been the scariest experience of my life. I've had some very rough times, but nothing like this. My biggest fear was something bad happening to my parents. Before I was feeling too scared to ttc b/c of what could happen. I honestly feel like I no longer am scared..at all really. I trust whatever is meant to happen, will happen.
God willing, my mom keeps recovering and then have to get my energy back. I didn't sleep for weeks and have never felt so tired in my life even though I am sleeping now. So let me do my own recovering and then ttc... It's just me and Jaspie now! It was going to be me and Blu this past month but Blu sure beat me to it!!! I had SUCH a positive feeling for you Blu.

Fit-- keep us posted on how you're doing. So happy for all 3 of you and excited for Jaspie!! So I'm thinking guys-- there really IS something to that myth/theory we are more fertile the first few months after a m/c. What do you think??!

 

[Blu10]

Oh Hopie im thrilled to hear that you will be TTC again! Id love for our family of five to all have BFP's again in the next few months and experience a healthy pregnancy together! 😆

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Hi Ladies,

Thanks for all your well wishes! Today I am feeling sick! With my last pregnancy I was STARVING all the time…today the only things I can stomach are Ginger Ale and chicken broth – if this keeps up I may finally lose the post-MC 5 lbs. that I’ve been so upset about.

Going to my doctor’s office tomorrow to get a requisition for a 7 week scan even though it is super early…they book up really fast and I don’t want to wait too long and then not be able to get one at all. Won’t lie, I’m a bit scared of jinxing myself by doing so…

Took 2 more tests this morning because I’m crazy obsessive like that – the 2nd line has gotten a wee bit darker on the FRER, and I also used a digital FRER, which from what I gather is not as sensitive as the non-digital version…my result was a YES+

DH and I are super happy and just trying to take everything one day at a time – we know we can’t control the future and whatever is going to happen is going to happen, so we’re just feeling grateful for what we have at the moment. I still can’t believe that it happened this fast, and not only that, that the tests turned positive so soon.

Hopie that is great that you have such a positive outlook in regards to your parents, and that it’s a great idea to recover and rest up yourself first, and then TTC. I’m sure it won’t take you long at all once you’re in the right frame of mind!

Bernie, based on the date I O’d (which is 7 days later than average) my due date is January 5, 2016, just 3 days after DH’s birthday. My birthday is in just over 2 weeks and I wanted a baby/BFP for my birthday – it’s nice to think that if everything works out DH will be getting a baby for his next birthday as well. That’s lovely that you’re getting a Thanksgiving baby and the Blu is getting a Christmas baby.

Jaspie, maybe you’ll get a Feb due date when you get your BFP and then we can have 4 months in a row, then a 5th when Hopie is ready!

 

[Blu10]

Hey fit, no offence but im glad you feel sick, its a good sign ha.
Im also feeling pretty queasy tonight, ive had really sore boobs all week and have felt tired but tonight i just need to lie down and veg. Just had a lovely soak in the bath, pj's are on and im going to lie on the sofa now - what a rock & roll friday nite haha. Im not complaining at all, im happy to feel crappy.
Just think if we have babies that are born early or go over then they could all be born at similar times. My DS was 2 weeks early and i hope this one will be too x

 

[jaspie]

Yay for darker lines fit! Super happy for you! Of course you will not jinx yourself it's a great idea to get that scan booked ready for 7 weeks. I'm sure the time will fly by. So lovely you got your bfp for your birthday too!

So OH and I had a little chat tonight about when we can try again but he said most likely June and he's hopeful we can have sex again before then even though I won't be fertile. He says he won't be ready by next week so i said well that's okay cos my fertile week isn't until the following week so 2 weeks from now and he said ok we'll see! So we might be able to ttc this month after all! Only a small chance but I'll take that

 

[Blu10]

Oooh jaspie, would be amazing for you to conceive on your hols!! Fingers crossed hubby is up for it... literally!! Hahaha 😉 i really hope for a jan snowflake for you x

 

[Blu10]

Hey friends, how was your weekend?
All good here, have just contacted EPAC as they said they would scan me early with a future pregnancy and theyve booked me in for next friday when ill be over 7 weeks - feel positive so hope to see a bubba and hb.
Hugs to all x

 

[jaspie]

Great news on getting booked in for the scan Blu! I'm sure you will see your baby with a strong heartbeat 💜
I had a fun weekend thanks, OH and i went to the pub and made friends with the locals and danced to a live band, OH was swinging me round everywhere so i have hope for ttc next week now! Fingers crossed his back feels ok to go ahead...

 

[Blu10]

Whoop whoop jaspie we need nookie updates haha 😃 i really hope you get to try and it would be amazing if were all due within a few weeks wouldnt it. Fingers crossed x

 

[bernie86]

Hi Ladies Hope you all had a nice weekend! Blu Im glad you are booked for an early scan! I wanted to come on and let you ladies know I am taking a break from the forum until next Tuesday, once I've had my ten week scan. I have some pretty bad anxiety about it because of last time and when I come on here to chat with you ladies I unfortunately peruse other boards too and some have people talking about their second miscarriage and scary things at their appts and so on. While I'm usually fine with that I cant add to my stress this week. I will be thinking of you ladies all week and you are still in my prayers! I appreciate all of you!

 

[Blu10]

Bernie I have such a good feeling about your baby this time but totally understand your anxiety. I cant wait to hear that all is well next Tuesday - hope you have a good week my lovely xxx

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Bernie I completely understand, though I’m sure everything will go just great at your scan. I get the same way – I honestly don’t know if I’ll even be able to join a January due date group TBH. When I was in the August group I got so anxious and upset whenever anyone would suffer a loss and that was before I had one of my own. In hindsight I wish I hadn’t have spent half of my last pregnancy being worried about what could go wrong…it’s not like it did me any good, and those were moments I could have spent being happy to have my baby with me instead of stressing about things I couldn’t control anyway. We’ll be here when you’re back and can’t wait to hear about your perfect little bean.

Blu that is great that you have your first scan on Friday – so excited for you, can you post a pic after? I love u/s pics! (Well, the ones of babies anyway).

Jaspie your weekend sounds like so much fun and it sounds like your DF is making a lot of progress…sounds like May could end up being your lucky month! Better drink up on that vacation while you still can, LOL. ;-)

Hopie I hope everything is going well for you and your parents.

I have my scan booked for May 21 – I was hoping for the 19th when I should be exactly 7 weeks, but that day was full already! I get to see the same nice sonographer that did my 7 week scan the last time, so that makes me happy.

Getting the requisition for the scan was quite something else though – the walk-in doctor at my doctor’s office on Saturday was probably one of the worst human beings I’ve ever encountered. I’ll spare you ladies all the details except to say that he was shouting at me and telling me that I don’t even need a scan until I’m 16 weeks (!!!) which is just flat out not true. I am turning 35 in 2 weeks which under provincial law entitles me to a NT u/s between 11 and 13 weeks at the bare minimum! Not to mention the Perintologists who were on shift when my sleeping baby was delivered TOLD me to get an early scan – when we told Dr. D-Bag he said “well why don’t you go see them then” – UGH!!! Thank God DH was there – once Dr. D-Bag saw that DH wasn’t backing down until we got a requisition he wrote one out, practically threw it at me, and then stormed out of the office. Needless to say DH is calling the practice manager to file a formal complaint today, and I will also be complaining to the regulatory body that oversees doctors in this province.

I also contacted the midwife practice I’m interested in (since the doctor who handled my last pregnancy, who is awesome, is on mat leave now). I thought I was contacting them awfully early but they responded today and sent me a questionnaire to fill out and also advised that they are already full up through December 2015 – yikes!!! Hopefully with a DD of January 5 they’ll take me!