hormone crash after ERPC

[jaspie]

Oh fit I'm sorry you had to go through that at the doctors. What an absolutely horrible man. I'm glad DH was there to have your back and that you got what you came for in the end. Screw him! I hope you get justice for complaining xx

Bernie totally understand, it's too much stress to read that stuff at an already scary time. Am sure we will be celebrating your healthy lil baby next Tuesday! I agree with fit too, i worried so much last time and it didn't change anything and i didn't appreciate the time i had pregnant as much as I could've done due to the worry. The more you can avoid that the better! See you next week! Xx

 

[Blu10]

Oh fit, what an awful experience, that "Dr" needs his arse kicking!! 😠
im glad you have your scan booked, I have a booking appointment with my midwife on the same day provided all goes well next friday. Will post a pic if i get, when i had DS they didnt give me a pic at 7weeks only at 12 and 20. How are you feeling?x

 

[Blu10]

Here we go again for me, started bleeding today. Scan says sac measures 4 weeks and I should be 6, so fed up. Plan for repeat scan in 2 weeks x

 

[hopie2015]

Hi friends! I went 2 days without internet and catching up now. Have missed you guys! Happy to read your updates!
Jaspie- have you guys decided where you are going on holiday yet? All sound amazing, but I am partial to the Greek islands! I wanted to go there this summer, but looks like will have to be some other time.
How perfect -- ttc on an exotic holiday!!

Blu- how are you doing?? Yes, feeling crummy..a good thing! I'm soo soo thrilled for you. And for you too Fit. Happy belated birthday and what an amazing birthday gift!! How is your hubby doing? I am sorry you had to deal with that from that a******* doctor. Unfortunately there is always one rotten apple. Glad you guys stuck up for your rights. He was clueless! How are you feeling?

Bernie- totally understand. I'm thinking of you and hope you are feeling great and anxiety has eased.

I keep doing deep breathing to help with my anxiety. Came down with my first cold in years.. let myself get so run down. I''m back at the hospital all day, but I just pop into my mom's room every 20 minutes with a mask on, so she doesn't catch my germs! She is soo tired of the hospital. On Monday she got what she said was bad news on her kidney function, but yesterday the doctor was more optimistic!! So I am praying like crazy her kidneys make come back fully. It is amazing to me how much everybody's prayers have helped my mom get to this point.

So, just trying to stay positive here!

I really do think there is great truth to being very fertile months after a m/c!! I'm afraid I am going to miss those 4 months after but really am so drained I can't even think about thinking about ttc'ing!! ha!

Looking forward to updates. Take good care, everyone!

 

[jaspie]

Oh Blu I'm so sorry for your loss this is so so unfair. Did they say why you have to wait 2 weeks for another scan? I hope it's over physically for you as quickly as possible Here for you xxx

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Oh Blu I am so so sorry. There are no words to describe how horribly unfair that is. I hope they are planning to do some tests because you certainly deserve answers. Wish I could give you a real hug.

 

[Blu10]

Thanks girls. EPAC are saying I may have ovulated late and found out about the pregnancy really early but im not convinced. The bleeding has stopped for now but my boobs dont feel as sore and i feel crampy. They want to scan in 2 weeks for progression but I had an appointment next friday anyway at a different hospital so they said i can keep that if I want to. I dont know what to think, my gut tells me that this is another loss which is heartbreaking as ive felt so so positive about it all x

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Hopie will continue to pray that your mom's kidneys improve. Hope you have the chance to give yourself some rest and TLC soon.

 

[hopie2015]

Oh, dear Blu. I am so, so very sorry. Gosh, I don't know what to say. I am so, so sorry. Sending you many healing thoughts. It's just so not fair and I wish I could help you more. Just know we are all here for you. Please post when you can..let us know how you are doing and feeling.
xxxxxx

 

[hopie2015]

Gosh Blu, I just read your other post. I don't know. Definitely go with your gut feeling you have now. Good they will re-scan in 2 weeks. I would say yes, keep that appt. for next Friday at other hospital to see what they say.
I have to say, looking back I had such extreme nausea weeks 6-9 but the only thing I did notice was the sore boobs were close to gone. Maybe that was a sign.. So I don't know because you are less sore, if that is a sign or not. So hard to tell because I was told in healthy pregnancy, it is normal for the soreness to come and go.
It's so hard to tell because I know quite a good amount of women bleed during early pregnancy.
Could it have been implantation bleeding?
Follow your gut instinct and keep staying strong. We're all here for you and sending you good thoughts.

Fit- thank you so very, very much. Greatly appreciate the thoughts and prayers for my dear mom!

 

[Blu10]

Hey Hopie thank you so much, still thinking about you and your mum. Im feeling ok, more pee'd off to be honest than emotional and cant believe im here for a third time, its so annoying!! I now have back and tummy ache so im fully prepared for yet another miscarriage. Its horrid not being able to give my son the sibling that he would love but im so lucky to have him already x

 

[jaspie]

I hope it's not too painful Blu. You'll have a sibling for your son i know it xx Will you get tests done now? Xx

 

[Blu10]

I asked today Jaspie and they said I wont be offered screening as my three losses havent been recurrent (had DS after the first loss) however I cant keep going on like this now, its so painful to keep building your hopes up then having the rug pulled from underneath you. I think I might request some bloods from my GP anyway. I feel suck a d*ck now for feeling so positive this time around 😢 x

 

[hopie2015]

Oh gosh, Blu. So sorry. Good you feel pissed as heck, as you well should. I'll never understand this unfair s*it. (sorry- I'm really pissed too!!)
I was going to ask that too about testing --- Though sometimes with an early miscarriage we don't always get answers in the test as to what caused it. But good for you for asking your doctor to get some lab work done.. He surely should for you.

I hope you're not in too much pain. And yes, you are soo very lucky to have your DS. And like Jaspie said, he will have a sibling someday.
There is always, always hope.

Take good care.. Keep us posted, please. xxxxx

 

[jaspie]

I think it's good you felt positive, it shows your strength it's an awful thing to have to go through once let alone 3 times. I think they should still test you, yes you have a son but that doesn't make losing a baby any easier. One of my friends on here had 2 mmcs back to back in the last year and when she got pregnant again she took baby aspirin and progesterone, the dr said its a "won't hurt might help" thing and she's fine this time around. Might be worth asking GP what they think? If I have another mc that's what I'm going to do. Sending you love and hugs xx

 

[hopie2015]

Great advice, Jaspie. Blu-- I totally agree. What do you think?
Once I get back to the city I have to go to doctor finally to get the test results. I know my progesterone was low week 5. If nothing was found to be wrong with chromosomes, I am entirely pissed at first doctor I went to who was not aggressive enough with progesterone prescription. Again, I have zero idea what caused either of my miscarriages (but hopefully find some answers on second soon).
I have read a lot of what Jaspie's friend experienced -- success with taking baby aspirin and progesterone -- but of course, that is something the doctor has to figure out with tests - if it is needed for clotting or low progesterone.

I truly believe your doctor can help you figure things out.

Take good care, Blu. xxxx

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Ugh I hate that they won't do testing because it wasn't 3 losses in a row...3 losses are still 3 losses! Maybe a naturopath could help, though I realize going to one often costs a lot out of pocket.

I'm mad for you too, life can sure be cruel sometimes and to people like who don't deserve it at all!

Take care of yourself, will be thinking of you.

 

[Blu10]

Thanks everyone. I will try anything, ive also wondered if my progesterone is low. Still had no further bleeding but my back is really achy and boobs are really sore. The not knowing is awful xx

 

[jaspie]

Oh how confusing. Sore boobs are a good thing surely?? That's one thing I noticed in hindsight decreased gradually for me before I knew I'd even lost the baby. Do you think there's any chance you could've ovulated later? I hope today goes okay for you I'll be thinking of you.

 

[Blu10]

I do get ov pain and ewcm which didnt happen until 1st weekend of april so EPAC think i could be due a week later than i think so potentially 5+5 today not 6+5 but i had a positive test 2 weeks ago which wouldve been in 3rd week, its all confusing. Sore boobs disappeared with last two losses but not now and I feel sickly still. Guess i just have to sit it out now, thanks so much for the support as ever!! Love you girls xx