hormone crash after ERPC

[hopie2015]

Hi!
Jaspie- how are you? I believe with the time difference, you must have had your scan a few hours ago? Thinking of you!
Blu- that is truly an amazing career and amazing news from you!!! ))

 

[jaspie]

Hey guys! Yes i did and all was perfect! We saw our teeny tiny baby with a strong heartbeat! Super happy and relieved!

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[Blu10]

Amazing news hunni xxx

 

[bernie86]

Jaspie! so glad to hear all is well with the babe! I hope that helps give you a little relaxation with the weekend coming up! Hope everyone is doing good! I've been super busy at work and then entertaining and feeding a teenage boy after is very exhausting! at least hes helping me around the house and with the furbabies like a good brother

 

[hopie2015]

AMAZING! SOO happy for you Jaspie!! Hope you feel nice and relaxed and you guys have a great weekend!!

Bernie- that is great your little bro is helping around the house. My niece at that age won't lift a finger! Very good of him. I can imagine your food bill is going up with him there. Have a great weekend!

Fit- how are you? Blu- wishing you a great weekend and congrats on finishing your first week and awesome new job!

I'm hoping to get back to the city tomorrow night. Seriously considering crashing a wedding..Yep, need to have some fun finally-- I haven't really been out since February!! See, my parents got invited to a once-in-a-lifetime million dollar wedding. They don't really know people like this. But the owner of my dad's company invited him and the girl is marrying some sports team owner. It's at amazing hotel in the city. Sadly my parents can't go. But I am thinking -- sneak into the cocktail hour?
I've always wanted to crash a wedding. My old best friend and I used to have fun crashing parties all the time.
It is also O time, but I am sorta scared to try again. I guess because all that has been going on has left me so stressed.
So not sure on that, but pretty sure I will get decked out for once and crash the wedding.

Talk to you all on Monday as long as I am not in jail!
Have wonderful weekends!!!

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

That's awesome Jaspie, so happy for you!!!

Hopie you should totally crash that wedding, that sounds like so much fun!

Bernie that's nice that your brother is helping you around the house but yes teenagers can be exhausting.

Blu that's so great that you're feeling movement!!

Feeling pretty upset myself. Went to meet the genetic doctor and counselor to go over my angel's autopsy yesterday and it was awful. They have no answers whatsoever so the doctor gave us up to a 25% reoccurance rate. He made me feel like my pregnancy is doomed even though everything has been going really well and it has been nothing like the last time. And yet they're not doing the level 2 ultrasound until mid August so I have an entire month to twist in the wind. Kind of wish I never went or told them that I'm pregnant again.

 

[jaspie]

Oh fit if there was a reoccurrence surely it would've been picked up by now as you've already had your 12 week scan? Everything is going perfectly and it sounds like this "counsellor" is not very good at his job, 25% does seem high but I'm sure that's worst case scenario, even if it was 25% that still 75% chance everything is perfect. So sorry he's made you worry. Don't forget that everything is going perfectly this time and whatever he said can't change that

Hopie you should definitely crash the wedding! Sounds amazing! Hope you have an amazing time. And exciting you're thinking of trying again! It is scary but will be so worth it xx

Bernie glad your bro is being so helpful despite eating you out of house and home 😂

Blu hope your first week went well? How's everything going?

We've got a 30th bday party tomorrow so more pretending to drink for me! But tonight is relaxing and we're going to get fish and chips, I'm super excited as been off food lately but salty chips are one of my good foods!

 

[hopie2015]

Thank you Jaspie and Fit!

Fit- I'm finding myself incredibly mad with the genetic counselor. I agree with Jaspie. I thought last week the doctor said the cause was not hereditary -- so a reoccurance rate really wouldn't be involved? I guess I am just confused. I am so sorry you didn't receive better support from them like you should have for your current pregnancy, which as Jaspie well said, is going 100% perfectly well. Even if this schmuck is correct on a 25% chance (where are his facts to fully explain that statistic even?), there is a 75% chance of a perfectly healthy pregnancy. And all signs point clearly to a 75%+ higher chance of a healthy baby. So remember those high numbers and try to have a nice, relaxing weekend as you so well deserve. How dare he make you feel the way he did. Try to put the asses' comments out of your mind. Everything is looking perfect with baby. Perhaps next week you can talk to your doctor about the comments made during your appointment today and that will rest your mind easier?
Take good care. Praying for you and trust that all will be well. (some counselors just plain suck!)

 

[Blu10]

Morning ladies, had an amazing time last night for my leaving doo but have woken up to lots of fresh bleeding again and Im feeling really nervous about it. Ive not bled for a week and to have bright red again is really worrying so i think I might ring the hospital this morning for some advice, I also feel a little bit crampy today, will keep you posted x

 

[jaspie]

Good luck at the hospital if you end up going in, I'd ask for a scan for reassurance if you can. It's so scary to see it doesn't matter if you've become used to it you should still get reassurance. Did the mw agree to keeping a closer eye on you when you asked? Try not to worry, am sure baby Blu is doing just fine in there but it would be good to get some answers on exactly what it is.

 

[jaspie]

Ps feeling crampy is probably your uterus being irritated by the bleeding rather than anything else xx

 

[Blu10]

Thanks Jaspie, I panicked as it was fresh blood but has now settled and gone brownish again and the discomfort has eased do going to rest up. Rang the hospital and she said if it doesnt settle they will see me x

 

[jaspie]

Glad it's settled down now. Even though you're used to it it's still scary. Did they ever give you a reason for it before? Was it a SCH?

 

[Blu10]

She said there was an area of bleed in a separate area to baby but was non commital as to whether its a SCH, even when I asked directly. For it to have gone on for so long now I presume it must be though? Just wish it would sod off now, wish I could enjoy this pregnancy especially as it will hopefully be my last if all goes to plan. How are you?x

 

[jaspie]

Well hopefully if they see you again you get a proper diagnosis. Hope you get to enjoy your pregnancy asap! I'm ok ta, just tired, nauseous and off food. Got an appointment to have my eyebrows done this morning and then later we're going to a 30th birthday party. Got a curry to eat at the party later which may be a challenge! Have you got plans today?

 

[Blu10]

Oooh i totally went off curry when having DS but Im liking it this time 👍
Hope you have fun at the party. No plans as such here, im going to have a soak in the bath now then i need to pop to the supermarket for a fee bits. Think ill visit my parents later then have a chilled night with DH tonight. I didnt get in until 1.30am and DS got up at 6 so i think a siesta may be in order later if DS naps 😉

 

[hopie2015]

Hi! How is everyone doing?
Jaspie- I hope you had a great time at the 30th bash. Were you able to eat the curry? Blu- just saw your post from the other day.. I sure hope the bleeding has subsided. How was it today? I know you must just want to relax and enjoy this pregnancy and it is beyond frustrating for you. From what I had read about SCH, it sure sounds like it. Maybe after this next appt. dr. can be certain that is what it is?
I hope everyone had a great, restful weekend. I didn't crash the million dollar wedding at the Pierre. Came down with bad tummy troubles..sure due to stress. Got to city yesterday with DF and had amazing fun, relaxing time finally and feel much better! )

 

[Blu10]

Hey Hopie, im so glad you managed to get some time with DF, sounds just what the doctor ordered.
Ive had no more fresh bleeding but have had the brown yucky cm again for two days, its so frustrating and can see it being an ongoing issue. My next scan is a few weeks ago so i have everythibg crossed that all is ok!
How were your weekends Jaspie and Bernie?
X

 

[jaspie]

Hopie glad you had a fun weekend with DF! So great to hear!

Blu glad it's tailed off now. What date is your next scan? How's your job going?

My weekend was good but tiring. I felt sick at the party but tried a bite of curry and then realised i was starving so i ate a small portion and it was nice! We didn't get in til 2am which wrecked me i was shattered. Still tired now despite 9hrs sleep last night! Roll on the weekend, finally a weekend with no plans and cannot wait!!

Hope you're both well Fit and Bernie!

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

3 more days until I find out if Baby Fit is a girl or a boy!! Eek! DH is feeling boy but not sure if that's just wishful thinking on his part. I'd be so thrilled with either but if we're team blue I'll be scared for our baby because that damn doctor said the baby could be more at risk if another boy - but again he has no evidence of this, he just seems to enjoy scaring the crap out of me!

Hopie sorry you didn't get to crash the wedding but so glad you and DF had a fun night out in the city! What did you end up doing?

Jaspie sorry you're so tired (I feel your pain) but glad you get a weekend at home!! We're off to a wedding 4 hours away, sigh.

Blu glad the bleeding is tapering off. Have you felt much more movement from Baby Blu? I have an anterior placenta so probably won't feel anything anytime soon.

Bernie hope you had a nice weekend!