hormone crash after ERPC

[hopie2015]

Blu that is good the fresh blood is gone. Sorry again you have to still deal with it. I remember a friend telling me of her sister who still got monthly periods all through her pregnancy. Everything was just fine though. So yes, trust all is fine with baby as the doctor said and your next visit and scan should put your mind at ease more.

Great Jaspie you got to eat! Sometimes can't feel the hunger until actually start eating, huh? You must be beat and glad you have a no-plans weekend to enjoy and rest. I got my first 9 hours sleep last night too. Most I've had in 5 months but seriously I feel soo tired still!

Fit- wow- just 3 more days until you find out..So excited for you guys! Yes- where is that idiot doctor's proof of what he said? There is none!
Yes, I am bummed I didn't make more effort when not feeling well and crash that million dollar wedding. Oh well!

Hope you're great, Bernie.

I'm trying an appt. now with that counselor I saw during the winter. I have trouble paying so much $$ but figure I could use some pro help!

Take good care! xxxx

 

[Blu10]

Evening my buddies!
Hopie im thrilled that youre seeking some help, I hope you find it useful.
Jaspie the party sounds like fun, I was also knackered after my late night on friday so feel your pain. Hows the nausea?
Fit i totally cant believe you find out if youre team pink or blue un 3 days- eeeeeeek! After a perfect 12 week scan hopefully there is nothing to stress about and baby Fit will be perfect! 👍
Bernie I hope you bought a crib?
As for me, the job is going great, im really enjoying it and learning loads. I popped into EPAC today as I was working next door, they checked babies hb which was perfect at 160 althoughy the little monkey kept moving away from the doppler so the nurse was playing chase the baby haha. Just glad all is well. I now have rusty coloured CM again but i can deal with that. I think ill be on pelvic rest for the entire pregnancy, Ill be too terrified to DTD again! Hope everyone had a lovely day xx

 

[bernie86]

Hi Ladies! glad to hear you all had nice but busy weekends! We spent time with my family which was nice but kind of a head ache at the same time ( you know how that goes) I've been a LOT more moody this week and I cant take ppl treating me like I'm handicapped and asking me as I'm eating if I'm allowed to have that.And I get asked multiple times daily how I'm feeling... and they probably care but do they really want to hear, Im fine but excuse me while I go pee for the 200th time. Im just thankful Im not usually this cranky! ANYWAY I just needed to rant hope the spotting comes to a stop blu, that would be so annoying. Jaspie, Im so glad you are able to eat a little... just remember that part doesnt last forever.fit, I cant wait to hear what you are having!!! but Im going to guess a boy! Hopie, Im so glad you had a nice time with DF you guys need to keep having nights like that!

 

[hopie2015]

Thanks Bernie. It did feel so great finally!
Sorry certain people were giving you a headache. You are lucky as you really very rarely do get cranky. Hope you're having a relaxing week!

Blu- that is great you were able to stop by next door and your mind was put at ease. Yayy!! I guess yes, just expect the on and off slight bleeding - a pain to put up with for sure, but trust and know it is totally separate from baby and baby is safe and sound and healthy.

Jaspie- how are you feeling? Still tired I bet but hopefully you are able to eat more foods this week?

Fit- we're all excited for you -- 2 more days!

Beautiful day here. Enjoy it everyone!

 

[jaspie]

Hey guys, hope you're all ok. I'm 8+3 and struggling a bit this week as it's around 8 or 9 weeks when things went wrong last time. Symptoms are less today and although I know they can come and go I'm feeling really doom and i just want the next couple of weeks over with. I always knew this bit would be hard though so i am trying not to read into every little thing but its hard and it's freaking me out. My scan has changed to 4th Aug so a couple of days earlier so that's good. Praying for another good scan.

Hopie how are you doing? Did you get an appointment booked with the counsellor?

Fit I'm so excited you get to find out if it's a boy or a girl so soon! Can't wait to hear!

Blu so glad baby blu is doing well in there, so good you can just pop into epau and get reassurance.

Bernie i can imagine being treated as if handicapped very annoying! I can also imagine certain people doing it to me too...hope your rant helped!

 

[Blu10]

Hey all, Im glad your scans been moved forward Jaspie and sorry youre worried. I found 8-10 weeks really hard even before the bleeding started so totally get how you feel but all the signs are good and i bet by the end of the week you feel crap again 😉
How did the appointment go Hopie?
All ok here, bleeding gone and CM is normal coloured again but still needing a liner as theres stacks of it yak!
Just got into bed and baby is lying awkward again little monkey, got lots of pressure right above my pubic bone x

 

[jaspie]

Thanks Blu, these weeks are so hard. It doesn't help that my old due date is bang in between my 10w and 12w scans! If everything goes well it'll be great but if not it'll be double whammy of terribleness. You're right though i feel sick and off food again today so hopefully everything is ok so far! Can't wait to be out of 1st tri with my lovely scan pics of my healthy baby. That's the dream.

Little monkey baby blu! Are you able to sleep when they're lying funny like that?

 

[hopie2015]

Hi friends-
Jaspie- I'm really sorry you're feeling as you described. It is totally normal. The 8-10 week time is naturally going to be the most difficult since what we experienced during that time. As you know symptoms come and go so try best not to worry too much about less symptoms today and hopefully you have more of an appetite to eat more. Good your scan was moved up a few days. Just keep the faith and trust all will be well. 'Pray, hope and don't worry' sure is easier said that done but helps me most days! Keep your mind focused on that future scan picture you will soon receive of your healthy baby!

Blu- glad no bleeding today. Hopefully baby moves over to a more comfortable position for you! How's second week of new job? Busy, I bet.

Fit- your appt. is tomorrow, right?

Appt. with counselor went well.. I'm going to keep at it for a while. Try to beat this depression without meds. She said it is normal to be feeling down since what was to be my due date is coming up and well, with all that happened this winter and spring I don't think I fully grieved the loss.
I'm keeping a vision of next spring time..if it is for me, naturally, via surrogate or adoption - we all will have our healthy little babies with us!

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Jaspie try not to worry, I'm sure everything is wonderful with Baby J!! I worried too at 8-9 weeks though so I understand. I still worry, so I guess it never completely goes away but the first trimester is definitely the worst. Have you thought about getting a doppler? I was able to find Baby Fit from 9 weeks 3 days and it definitely helped keep me sane until my 12 week scan. I know not everyone can find a heartbeat so early though.

Blu glad you got to go in and hear Baby Blu's heartbeat. So neat that you're feeling movement!

Bernie sorry family was getting on your nerves...I am frequently cranky so it sounds like you are doing better with your moods than me!

Hopie hope the counseling goes well...it's a drag that it's so expensive though. I had the opposite problem - mine was free but the location and hours were not convenient, especially with my work schedule.

One more day before I find out if Baby Fit is a boy or girl!! Excited and nervous. DH says if we are team pink his hair will either turn gray or fall out from all the worry so he may have some gender disappointment if that is the case, especially since our angel was a boy.

 

[jaspie]

Thanks Hopie glad the counselling was good. I'm sure that's very true, with everything that happened afterwards i don't think you had time to grieve. I love it that you have a happy springtime envisioned for next year

Fit i have wondered about getting a doppler but i think it might stress me out if I couldn't find it. But then again if i can find it it will really help. I'm torn....I'm thinking i probably won't this early but i might after 12 weeks. So exciting you find out the gender tomorrow! So excited for you!

 

[Blu10]

Hey girls, lovely updates.
Jaspie your symptoms are so positive and losing after seeing a hb measuring right on schedule would be ultra unlucky, theres a much higher chance of baby J being scrummy.
Hopie im glad you found counselling useful and hope yourr managing to get some me time. Have you considered the adoption process anymore?
Fit I cannot wait for your update tomorrow, how exciting. My anomoly scan is 2 weeks tomorrow and I cant wait to see baby and pray all is well.
Week 2 of the new job is complete! Im off now until monday which is lovely and its our anniversary this weekend too. DH had gone out for the evening with work so im going to get DS into bed order a curry and watch one born every minute ☺ bliss xx
Wishing you all a lovely friday, where are the weeks going x

 

[jaspie]

Happy Friday blu and everyone! Blu you evening yesterday sounds nice, hope you enjoyed! Fit can't wait for your update!
Blu you were right I feel rough again must have been a lull in hormones before the next batch! 9 weeks on Sunday time is going fast.
On way home to a nice bath, something beige for tea and Netflix yeah!

 

[Blu10]

Wow 9 weeks already, nearly at 12 hun! Ive got to go to a wedding reception in this rain tonight and i have nothing that fits properly 😡 im such a misery guts today.

 

[bernie86]

Woo hoo 9 weeks! those symptoms start going on and off so dont work jaspie! fit I cant wait to hear what you are having!!! blu Im sure whatever fits will look lovely, but I feel your pain! ps maternity pants are the best thing ever invented! im saving them for future thanksgivings and big meals hahaha. Hopie, hope you're having a nice week!
Its been a hell of a week here! I made a mistake at work and made my boss a little angry and I was getting my punishment all week! lol we are headed to the lake for the weekend for my sister in laws birthday so I will have a chance to recharge. Have a good weekend all! fit dont keep us in suspense!

 

[jaspie]

I know! I'll breathe so much easier after 12 and probably even after my scan at 10+2!
Hope you have a nice time tonight blu. Sorry you're having clothes stress. Not nice, hope you managed to find something you feel comfortable in

 

[hopie2015]

Jaspie- so glad you sound great! I can't believe 9 weeks already. Like Blu said - where does the time go?! 12 will be here before you know it! Hope you get a nice, relaxing weekend in.
Blu- have fun at the reception tonight. Hope you found something comfie!
Glad you had a good night to yourself last night..with curry!
Bernie - we all sure make mistakes. Glad you have a weekend at lake to relax and recharge. Next week at work will be much better!

Fit- we all can't wait to hear from you!! Thinking of you!! I think you said your MIL is going with you today?

DF's nephew's h.s. graduation tomorrow...yippee..that means I get a day off and out of the house and lots and lots of wine will be flowing. I haven't drank in a while and need to BADLY!

Have great weekends everyone and take good care!

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Will check in later but quick update -

We are TEAM BLUE!!!!!!!!

Bernie you were right again LOL.

 

[jaspie]

Team blue!!!! yay!! Over the moon for you fit!!!
Can't wait to hear more about your scan!

Sooo....2 boys for our group so far...not long until you find out now blu!

Hopie enjoy the graduation and the wine have a fun day! Blu hope you had a good night in the end. Bernie that sucks about your boss, hope everything is okay now! Have a fantastic weekend at the lakes!

 

[Blu10]

Team Blue rocks Fit! Congratulations. I am so excited to know what we are having now but everyone seems to be leaning towards team pink and in fairness I am a little bit myself now too.
How are you today Jaspie?
Bernie just tell the boss you have baby brain! Ha
Hopie enjoy the graduation and the vino 😉
The reception was lovely, it was a crazy day yesterday, i also managed to crash my car, totally my fault and I was really angry with myself but the main thing is both cars were only slightly damaged and more importantly both the other driver and I were ok.
Were off to do a spot of shopping soon, have a lovely weekend girls x

 

[jaspie]

Oh Blu nooo! Sorry about the car crash but glad everyone is unhurt and the cars are not too damaged. Will it take long to be fixed? Enjoy your shopping! I'm fine thanks Blu still the same which is good in my book