I'm just wondering though, exactly what is non-medical? How common is "too posh to push", really? Or do repeat C-sections count? Ie. fine pregnancy but choose not to VBAC? What about breech babies?
Doesn't matter how healthy my next pregnancy is, I will be having a C-section after my last vaginal (for medical reasons) and I'm not in the UK anyways, but just curious as to what is a non-medical? Does that apply to previous history too>
my friend had to really fight for her elective section after traumatic first birth. i don't think many nhs hospitals just do c sections for no good reason.
my friend had to really fight for her elective section after traumatic first birth. i don't think many nhs hospitals just do c sections for no good reason.
I had to transfer hospitals to get mine and every time the first hospital told me I would 'have' to try to have a VBAC I would litterally burst into tears and get terrible shakes, my midwife totally understood since she knew how bad first time was (The section saved my life and was almost too late to save DS1) so I sympathise with your friend who had to fight for hers. It's awful to feel so out of control and afraid, for me it was never that I wanted another C-section I just couldn't face labour again, even thinking about my first labour now nearly 6 years later I still tear up and get the shakes. I know how pathetic I sound but it was honestly the worst thing I could have ever imagined happening!!
my friend had to really fight for her elective section after traumatic first birth. i don't think many nhs hospitals just do c sections for no good reason.
I had to transfer hospitals to get mine and every time the first hospital told me I would 'have' to try to have a VBAC I would litterally burst into tears and get terrible shakes, my midwife totally understood since she knew how bad first time was (The section saved my life and was almost too late to save DS1) so I sympathise with your friend who had to fight for hers. It's awful to feel so out of control and afraid, for me it was never that I wanted another C-section I just couldn't face labour again, even thinking about my first labour now nearly 6 years later I still tear up and get the shakes. I know how pathetic I sound but it was honestly the worst thing I could have ever imagined happening!!
Oh my god your not pathetic at all! I think that sometimes if someone has a "straight forward" birth they don't understand just how scary it can be. I feel lucky that i've come to terms with mine. The crying and shaking only lasted a few weeks for me and i think after 4-5 months i'd made peace with it. If its still affecting you 6 years later then you totally deserve to have your wishes respected. hope this time you can have a wonderful birth experience xxx