Hi Ladies,
Hoping for some advice here.
I am 5 weeks pregnant today, and have just had my first contact with a midwife and I've been told I need to make a decision about which hosiptal I would like to choose already!
Basically I live in a village between Portsmouth and Winchester. Closer to Portsmouth but in the Winchester City Council Area. The midwives that serve our village only direct mothers to Winchester, and not QA in Portsmouth and so if I want to go to QA ALL of my appointments will have to be there and I will not benefit from the midwife services 2 minutes from my house.
The problem is that I have heard very mixed (mostly negative) views of RHCH in Winchester, particularly with their post-labour care. I don't know anyone who has delivered at QA and because I am only 5 weeks, its still a bit early to be asking people!
Having to go to Portsmouth for all of my appointments will be a hassle. I have a long commute out of the county anyway (beyond Winchester) and the traffic is generally mental. On the plus side though, it's easier to get there than Winchester when I actually do go into labour, and my OH works in Portsmouth too.
I'm sorry, I realise I'm rambling a bit, but whilst I knew I'd have to make this decision at some point, I didn't expect it this early!
Any advice, experiences, voices of common sense most appreciated! Thanks!
xx
Hoping for some advice here.
I am 5 weeks pregnant today, and have just had my first contact with a midwife and I've been told I need to make a decision about which hosiptal I would like to choose already!
Basically I live in a village between Portsmouth and Winchester. Closer to Portsmouth but in the Winchester City Council Area. The midwives that serve our village only direct mothers to Winchester, and not QA in Portsmouth and so if I want to go to QA ALL of my appointments will have to be there and I will not benefit from the midwife services 2 minutes from my house.
The problem is that I have heard very mixed (mostly negative) views of RHCH in Winchester, particularly with their post-labour care. I don't know anyone who has delivered at QA and because I am only 5 weeks, its still a bit early to be asking people!
Having to go to Portsmouth for all of my appointments will be a hassle. I have a long commute out of the county anyway (beyond Winchester) and the traffic is generally mental. On the plus side though, it's easier to get there than Winchester when I actually do go into labour, and my OH works in Portsmouth too.
I'm sorry, I realise I'm rambling a bit, but whilst I knew I'd have to make this decision at some point, I didn't expect it this early!
Any advice, experiences, voices of common sense most appreciated! Thanks!
xx