How do i get through this?

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Went for a scan yesterday and got diagnosed with a blighted ovum,i am devestated and now have to wait a week before seeing anyone else so am just waiting for the inevitable to happen how do i get through this.
I am distraught how can i remember my baby i do not want to forget our gorgeous baby pip and i just dont know where i am i feel so lost:hissy:
Thanks Lisa
 
I am so sorry for your loss. It really is a devastating time. I know it isn't much comfort for you right now, but it will get easier with time.
The main thing now is for you to take good care of yourself
:hug:
x
 
Hun, so sorry, it's devastating and you're in my thoughts.

You will never forget your angel hun but in time it will get easier to remember with lots of love and not just the devastation. I won't lie to you and say it will be an easy road but know that you will pull through. Allow yourself the time to grieve and take good care of yourself right now. I can't imagine what the waiting must be doing to you but know you are in my thoughts and try to keep strong.

Sending you huge hugs
 
So sorry for your loss, i gave birth to two beautiful boys sleeping on monday. It's the most heartbreaking thing you will ever have to go through. I am so sorry. I have been looking on the internet for jewellery to remember them by and at other various different things. Just to let you know, you will NEVER forget that baby. I will never ever forget mine.
 
sorry to hear of your loss, you wont forget your baby, i dont know if it would be helpful but when i lost my first bean i wrote a little letter to her and kept it in a box with a collage page of nursery rhymes i made from her brother, a little list of things i had thought and planned for her and the cards people sent me-havent been able to look at it since but was a really comfort to me at the time and i like to know its there-my mum planted a tree in the garden for her as well-do whatever feels right for you, i know of someone who bought a little pea charm for a necklace as they had called theirs 'little pea' whilst preg
take care
x
 
Im sorry for your loss. My husband bought this for me - last week.. after we found out that our identical twins had passed. I love it. It's called the Mothers Love Ring.. and I thought it was perfect :hug:

https://secure.jamesavery.com/jewelry/search/product/R-1305/Mothers-Love-Ring/
 
So sorry for your loss :hug:

I to was recently diagnosed with a blighted ovum and am just waiting for things to progress, I have another scan on Monday.

Having suffered previous miscarriages I can tell you that you will never forget your baby and eventually when you think of them it won't bring you to tears. You'll be able to honor their memory by keeping them close to your heart always.
 
Sorry for your loss hun!

I had a BO in January. Time is a healer!
:hug:

XXX
 
so sorry hun i had one in sept nothing any one can say will make it better pm m any time xx
 
you just do get through it who knows how you just wake up one day and you think of that little one and you dont cry you just miss them!
i light candles every now and again and just look at them and dream of everything i have lost in my life time and be greatful for all the things i have!
you will be ok in the end i know it doesnt feel like it now but you need to do what ever you feel you need to cry if you want scream if you want yell if you want do what ever you wanna do that helps even if its only a little an only for a minuet but what ever it is do it you will get there in the end!
i am sorry for your loss!
 

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