wifey2013
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Hi ladies,
I'm super excited to meet our son soon. We know that we want an hour or two to ourselves with the baby before people start visiting. The only people we want meeting him right after birth are our parents. That's all. My problem is this one friend I have who I just know if she hears I am in labor will show up at the hospital just so she can say she was the first friend to visit. My husband and I both really don't want any friends to visit until after our family (aunts, uncles, etc.) meets our little guy.
I've already said it in a nice way to my friends, that we don't want visitors until we're moved out of labor and delivery and into a room, but I still feel like if we even mention that I'm in labor this one person will show up.
I'm trying to prepare a mass text message for my husband to send out only once the baby is born to our friends. Is it rude to say that the nurses aren't letting anyone in and we'll inform all of our friends once we're moved into our own room?
I'm super excited to meet our son soon. We know that we want an hour or two to ourselves with the baby before people start visiting. The only people we want meeting him right after birth are our parents. That's all. My problem is this one friend I have who I just know if she hears I am in labor will show up at the hospital just so she can say she was the first friend to visit. My husband and I both really don't want any friends to visit until after our family (aunts, uncles, etc.) meets our little guy.
I've already said it in a nice way to my friends, that we don't want visitors until we're moved out of labor and delivery and into a room, but I still feel like if we even mention that I'm in labor this one person will show up.
I'm trying to prepare a mass text message for my husband to send out only once the baby is born to our friends. Is it rude to say that the nurses aren't letting anyone in and we'll inform all of our friends once we're moved into our own room?