How do u feel about handing bub over to ex

[rewizz]

Im soooooo scared about this .... we have opposite oppions on everything! i wish he'd do one

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OMG My ex makes my skin crawl big time and we have a difference of oppion on everything.. his mom is nanby pamby and, god i wish they would just .. cock off ... i can not bare the thought of them wanting to take the baby off me when it's here .. i will try hard to be reasonable but i don't see why i should when he's been such a prick..... errrrrrrrrr grrrrrrrrrr
he will not be at the birth and i will keep it quite for a few days until i have had time to chill ... it's a stressfull time as it is ... hopefully i will breast feed so he will be unable to run off with baby straight away

HOW DOES EVERYONE ELSE FEEL ABOUT HANDING THIER BABY OVER ??

 

[scrummy mummy]

hiya its so hard when me and oh split up i NEVER let him take my boy away from me there was just no way - the breast feeding thing is good too 1 cause its good for baby and 2 like you say ex cant have bubz for a long time as you will need to feed. me and ex have now got back together and no2 in on his/her way
my lo is now nearly 3 and last week was the first time i let oh take him for a 2 minute walk to the shop - maybe im a bit overprotective o well - good luck with the rest of your pregnancy and i hope you can sort something out xx

 

[purpledahlia]

well for me its just simply not going to happen. I will ALWAYS be there when he is with LO, IF he ever shows up!

 

[McLovin]

seems to be two posts Rewiz?!

really really with ya on this! Can't stand the thought of it. But I have to keep reminding myself how important it is for LO to make his own mind up one day. Have to tell myself it is best for him. Need to remember how much I would of loved to of had a dad - or at least to have known him. Really hard though!!!
And sometimes I forget all of this when I'm mad with him - and just want to run away!
(luckily I have nowhere to run to so I am stuck!)

 

[xJG30]

I don't have thie problem.. Tom's dad never comes up.

 

[lou_w34]

My ex met our baby for the first time yesterday... It didnt go all that great. He held her once and it felt like someone had ripped out my heart.

He's not aloud to see her without me there though, so i havent had to experience leaving her with him.

xx