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I'm 31 and I've been ttc for 4 years now. Everyone I know is getting pregnant. And I cry all the time wondering why not us. I have done Clomid for the past 9 months and nothing, fertility tracking, and my hubby has done a sperm count and he is fine. How do you know when enough is enough and it's time to give up? or am I letting my emotions getting the best of me?
 
I don't think it's ever 'time to give up' For me there came a time where i had acceptance of 'what will be, will be' I grieved for the family i probably will never have, and my life had another direction if it didn't take the one i used to dream of.

I'm still giving it 100% of what i can to follow my dream, but 11 years on my life is still good, My man is amazing, i still have my career, plus my our business and LTTTC no longer consumes my every waking (and sleeping) moment.

I hope that everyone who finds this time so difficult eventually finds peace with their situation and hopefully their arms filled with bundles of joy xx
 
TTC can be such an emotional and draining time!
I decided to take some time away from everything pregnancy related last summer. NO temps, cycle days, planned sex, pills ect. IM still not pregnant but now im back with a clearer head and feeling more positive that one day it will be me!!
 

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