Ema
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OK well i went for lunch with a few of work mates yesterday, now there all in there 30's early 40's and most there children are older. Anway jacob was a STAR and none of them could believe how good he was until we can to leave he HATES his pram or car seat and always kicks up a fuss when he goes in them and i NEVER let him cry it out. I will pick him back up just encase something is wrong. So i got told "your not MENT to pick them up when they cry or they get used to it " So i explained that jacob was a windy baby and i would NEVER leave him to cry or let him cry himself to sleep as for all i know he could have wind stuck etc etc.
Well i was told "your soft, he's going to have you wrapped around his lil finger in no time (this is a 3 month old baby!!) " So anyway on the drive home he started to cry so like always i pull over and pick him out of his car seat and what do you know a burp comes up then he's fine and back in he goes and after a couple of seconds of grizzling once i move the car he is fine So got me thinking how do you know a baby so young is crying for attention or crying because there is something wrong??? I always let jacob fall asleep on me and cuddle him to sleep then i pop him down once asleep and he's fine, this takes a matter of minutes maybe 10 max yet im being told i should leave this young baby to cry until he falls asleep on his own so he LEARNS......but he's so so so so so young. I dont get it
So anyway rambling now but how do you know nothing is wrong when you leave them to cry??? XxxX
BTW I never leave jacob to cry XxX
Well i was told "your soft, he's going to have you wrapped around his lil finger in no time (this is a 3 month old baby!!) " So anyway on the drive home he started to cry so like always i pull over and pick him out of his car seat and what do you know a burp comes up then he's fine and back in he goes and after a couple of seconds of grizzling once i move the car he is fine So got me thinking how do you know a baby so young is crying for attention or crying because there is something wrong??? I always let jacob fall asleep on me and cuddle him to sleep then i pop him down once asleep and he's fine, this takes a matter of minutes maybe 10 max yet im being told i should leave this young baby to cry until he falls asleep on his own so he LEARNS......but he's so so so so so young. I dont get it
So anyway rambling now but how do you know nothing is wrong when you leave them to cry??? XxxX
BTW I never leave jacob to cry XxX