For me it would have been too soon to plan, at that stage I still felt like I was getting to know OH, we were still honeymooning and everything really was bliss. We were thrown into the deep end though when 9 months into our relationship we found out i was pregnant. I cannot regret my son in anyway, he really was the best thing to ever happen to us and he changed everything! Absolutely everything! Im not going to deny having to work hard at our relationship over the years but we are still here 9 years later, married, our own home and our own business', and planning to try for number 3 this year. Sometimes we reflect how life would have been if we had been able to carry on dating and saw the world together before children.
We've had to work 10 times as hard to reach our goals than we would have had to without a child/ren in tow and its been a tough ride but one ive always felt confident in OH to be there right by me for.
Now i know what I know, I can't ever regret having a baby so soon with my OH, hindsight has a way of making your appreciate everything you have and every challenge and journey life throws at you but with all that said, I am not sure I would have chosen to have those seemingly short and precious years with just me and OH taken away again and whilst we arent in a hurry to see our children grow up, we do look forwards to the years where we can take a holiday alone and be a little bit selfish overindulging in one anothers company being just Husband and Wife