How Good Are your Men/Partners.......

[WeenieWoo]

Hi Ladies
I just wanted to start a thread so we can talk about how good or bad our men or partners are. I thought of this because i had a bad night sleep again last night (altho this is nothing unusual since becoming preggars), and i ended up sleeping at the other end of the bed (this is the only way sometmes i get to sleep) - like me and DF are topping and tailing.
Well anyway - i've been complaining lately that my feet are swollen and sore, and when DF woke up - he must have seen my feet (mustn't have been a pretty site either), and started massaging them - without me having to say anything. It was so sweet and felt soo good. He also knows that if i get woken up at night, it takes ages for me to get back to sleep, so when he comes to bed at night (and he does this without fail - every night) - he always goes to kitchen and makes me a hot chocolate - he boils the milk and everything bless him.

Whenever we have an arguement too (normally my fault cos of hormones etc etc), he always gives into me, lets me get my own way, always cuts the arguement off so i don't start getting stressed - screaming and shouting). He never moans when i turn him down for sex (which i seem to be doing a lot of lately). He always asks me for a cuddle and is always keen on sharing everything about this pregnancy - comes to every appointment, lets me have my own way when it comes to buying stuff for baby.

sorry this is sooo long and thanks if you got to the end but i just wanted to share with everyone how good my man is. He's a brilliant partner and he'll be a brilliant Daddy too. He hasn't been well for a few years and also lost his left arm in a motorbike accident in 2003 when we first met - but still does all of this for me - when i know he's not feeling great either.

Please let us know what your men/partners are like - good or bad xxxx

 

[xCookieDough]

What a nice thread will be interesting to read some of the responses .

Aww your OH rubbing your feet, cute

My oh is perfect, so so sweet, and understands me so much, since the day we met he has been so damn good so me! lol. He doesn't realise just how much of gentleman he is, he is the one who stole my heart My family love him, which is very important to me as I'm extremely close with them. I can tell he'll be a fantastic dad, he's my everything and more, just wish he'd understand what a great guy he is ... ahhh makes me want to run and kiss him now hehe XO

 

[WeenieWoo]

^^ yeah - they can be so sweet. My DF is so macho when he's not around me but he does the sweetest things. I'm glad there are more men out there like my DF xxxx

I truely hope you and your OH are happy together forever - its so nice when you hear of fairytale relationships xx

 

[XJessicaX]

Husband is just amazing...literally couldn't ask for anyone better. I hear such horrible stories from friends about their husbands and b/fs and I just cant relate to them!
He thinks I am more attractive now than he ever has done before. Drives me to work on weekends if my shifts land on them, cleans the house and makes me dinner for when I come home. He talks to the 'bump' even though the bump probably cant hear yet! strokes my back and tells me he thinks I am amazing for making a baby....and he's stopped drinking so that I don't feel left out! awwww....I have to go and give him a kiss now!

 

[WeenieWoo]

Aww - soo cute - ^^ men are such sweeties arent they - and to give up drinking too xx

 

[bellablue]

My husband is perfect to me, after 12 years together and only being 26 and 28 we still love each other more then ever he is easy going and a blessing to my life. He spoils me rotten! I love hearing other women who are in love cause its true you hear alot of sad story's yay! to us ladies

 

[jjbump]

I have to be honest, my OH exceeded all expectations I had. He has been attentive and nurturing. He cooks all the dinners, makes the teas/coffees, does the washing up, washing etc. and does the rest of the housework on his days off and has NEVER complained! I think there are so many OHs out there that cope silently when their ladies are pregnant and unable to function normally. I don't know how I would have survived this far without him. x

 

[xCookieDough]

Agree with what you ladies have said so far, it's so nice to hear of fairytale stories about men! lol, as I normally hear about how bad some men are. It does show that there are some men out there who are just so great towards us women and family ect. I am a lucky girl I have to admit it, because there are some women who men treat them like utter crap, and it's sad to hear stories like that! Yaay to good men! *Raises a glass* (of water or juice obviously ) haha XO

 

[jjbump]

*raises a glass of ginger beer*

To lovely men!

 

[hotpinkangel]

My Fiancé is lovely too... He moved 100 miles away from his family and friends to be with me and my 10 week old daughter (from a previous relationship) he works 70 hours a week to provide for me, my daughter and our son, so that I don't have to work whilst pregnant, he always says I look beautiful when I'm pregnant, I couldn't ask for anyone better!! He's so interested in the pregnancy, and talks to bump, offers to shave my legs 'cos I can't reach, he's just lovely!!! Xx

 

[My_First]

Whilst mine can irritate the living crap out of me at times, after 5 years he is still very good. Always cooks, (I never cook), irons his own shirts and all the other general domestic duties. Hw is thoughtful, BUT on occasions he does act like a complete child, and STILL finds farts funny... (i do sometimes too).

I have friends who have said that they have to get home to feed their toddlers etc. as their partners dont know how to/won't etc. Same with picking them up from parents in law etc. I asked my OH if thats how he woudl be and he wants to be as hands on as possible. I think thats pretty cool!

 

[jjbump]

LOL, hotpinkangel, shaving your legs is the best thing I've heard. How sweet!!

 

[BadRobot]

I'm afraid my other half can be variable-he will cook for me and make me a hot water bottle but at times he seems to do this begrudgingly. He works part time and is at university, I work full time, am at university and pretty much do all the housework-he needs a real foot up his ass to do the housework and expects praise when he has done it. He has got a bit better just recently as in he doesnt need telling as much to do things but he still struggles to complete tasks around the house and has the worse memory in the world e.g. he forgets to do things I have asked him to do. I also do all the driving because although he has a licence he is afraid of driving. I must admit he can be a bit of a lazy man and I can really struggle as I feel (sometimes!) like it would actually be easier on my own.

 

[Deutschette]

Ohh, I love this thread!

My hubby has started to massage my back and shoulders in the mornings now, then makes whatever I like for breakfast (in this case, *slightly* runny eggs with ketchup on toast) and has met me quite often for lunch after I'm finished with work. He even helps with the dishes when I ask.

He has become such a sweetie.

 

[rockabillymom]

My Dh is super sweet he gives me massages after he gets off a long day of work. He brings me lunch at work and gets me breakfast in the morning. He loves going to all the doctor appointments even if they are only 2 minutes long of hearing our baby girl's heartbeat. Its more me that is making things bad but hopefully i can change it around!

 

[alparen]

Hubby has been the most amazing man in the world. Hes working his butt off to buy things for the baby he comes home and cooks almost everynight for supper ( i hate cooking) We take turns running the dogs out in the am.
He comes home every single night from work with a treat for me I never expect it. Always something I'm craving to. He came in with an ecno giant box of half moon cakes and chips. Always makes sure I am fully stocked on bottled water ( the tap water tastes like bleach) always makes sure I have caffeine free pop, always calls before coming home and seeing if I want a coffee or not.
Kisses my bump goodnight every single night before going to bed and telling cupcake he loves him/her. Doesn't get upset if I'm to sore or not feeling well to have the sexy times.
He's leaving Friday to go away for a week to work and hes so worried I won't be ok or something will happen while he is away.
Love him to death and couldn't imagine my life without his weird, crazy, hyper insane personality as much as I get annoyed at times about it.

 

[mamamay]

Just shows they are not all bad, some sweet things they have been up to! My hubby is a typical man and has found it ard to believe how tired I am etc, but I went to my friends today, he went to ASDA, tidied place from top to bottom and I saw a little baby scan album he as made on his Playstation 3 bless his heart lol! I am so glad I gave up fancying 'bad boys' and am with my beautiful geek, he may be a sci fi nerd but he is kind sensitive and I would love him to be my dad if I was being born so I know he is right for the job!

 

[jessica716]

My OH has been great...i've not washed up or hoovered or had to feed the tortoise and cat since i've been pregnant...its all been done for me!

I came home from work on 2 occasions at 9pm last week to find he'd baked me cupcakes.. he even has bought me and little bean a present every weekend since i hit 6 weeks!!

Been abandoned tonight for curry night with his rugby team mates but he left me with a family size box of haribo and a big bag of maltesers too!! haha

 

[xtinydancerx]

What a nice thread

My DH is great, whenever I get upset, even when it's at him he just puts his arms around me and tries to make me feel better, he is constantly rubbing my tummy and trying to feel baby kick (even though you can't yet), he gives me back rubs at night when I complain of a backache, and whenever I'm craving something he runs out and gets whatever it is I want, he's so sweet

 

[24/7]

My hubby has always been amazing, but since bing pregnant I really can't fault him, he has been the perfect husband.

He has done everything and anything I have needed of him, been to all my appointments, given me cuddles all the time, as I've needed them so much. He blowdries my hair after my showers, as I'm too tired to do it myself, he moisturises my bump, and is always stroking it. he does almost all the cleaning, washing and ironing, and when my MS was really bad he popped home to check on me.

So all in all, hes brilliant. xx