I joined when I was pregnant with my son, over a year and a half ago now. I started off just looking in 1st, 2nd and 3rd tri. Then moved up to baby club. When I discovered the grotto I was in there a lot. I only really started using a lot more of the forum once the grotto shut. Now I visit quite a few areas, general chatter, the grotto, girly sanctuary, baby club, breastfeeding, and then have a nose in other sections if I'm bored. xxx