It really depend on what restaurant we go too, but for the places we go we usually spend about $50 or so, if we share an appetizer, and only DH drinks now I stick with water being PG and all (not that I can legally drink, but when we have DD with us I never get my ID checked). Our fav restaurant is expensive and we spend around $120 there but we only go once a year as a rule. When we're trying to keep it cheep we spend $30-40 though. We don't go out very often though as it adds up!