MummyMummy
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heylo!
thought i'd invade your board if that's ok?
i'm not single, but i do have a bloody hardwork ex (hardwork to show an interest/make an effort no matter how many times i talk/shout/cry/grump/threaten to hit/kill/bash him and that goes for my mr.man talking to him too)
just wondering how much maintenance you receive? and if when you receive maintenance that's it then, his job done or so he thinks!
i receive £100 a month. and he pays half his school fees which are £100 a month, wellthey were but we cancelled 2days which makes them £60 the rest we just spend on baby (he doesn't know that though haha) and he sees 3year old for 1day 1 week, 2days the next week from around 11am-4pm (not long, but me and mr.man have told him he can have baby for longer/more often/even just to pop and say hello or take himout for t... but he hasn't asked so assuming he's quite happy?) when he has baby he pays for all food/fares etc. doesn't often buy him anything, but if i ask him to get baby some shoes for eg. or does he want to pay halves with me for something then when he next gets paid then more often than not he will... i don't often ask him for stuff for baby as it's mine and mr.mans job but as i often say he does bugger all as far as making an effort, so mightaswell get baby some extra goodies outta the deal and i wouldn't if he actually did anything with baby/took him anywhere other than walking around our local town, i'd much rather him spend his money with baby doing things like zoo days out/aqarium days out things like that than on baby some shoes kwim? but he doesn't so sometimes i'll mention thebaby needs something lol aren't i terrible?
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thought i'd invade your board if that's ok?
i'm not single, but i do have a bloody hardwork ex (hardwork to show an interest/make an effort no matter how many times i talk/shout/cry/grump/threaten to hit/kill/bash him and that goes for my mr.man talking to him too)
just wondering how much maintenance you receive? and if when you receive maintenance that's it then, his job done or so he thinks!
i receive £100 a month. and he pays half his school fees which are £100 a month, wellthey were but we cancelled 2days which makes them £60 the rest we just spend on baby (he doesn't know that though haha) and he sees 3year old for 1day 1 week, 2days the next week from around 11am-4pm (not long, but me and mr.man have told him he can have baby for longer/more often/even just to pop and say hello or take himout for t... but he hasn't asked so assuming he's quite happy?) when he has baby he pays for all food/fares etc. doesn't often buy him anything, but if i ask him to get baby some shoes for eg. or does he want to pay halves with me for something then when he next gets paid then more often than not he will... i don't often ask him for stuff for baby as it's mine and mr.mans job but as i often say he does bugger all as far as making an effort, so mightaswell get baby some extra goodies outta the deal and i wouldn't if he actually did anything with baby/took him anywhere other than walking around our local town, i'd much rather him spend his money with baby doing things like zoo days out/aqarium days out things like that than on baby some shoes kwim? but he doesn't so sometimes i'll mention thebaby needs something lol aren't i terrible?
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