katherinegrey
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My LO is nearly 18 months old, and since newborn he's been a champion sleeper. He never liked to be held to sleep though, he much preferred going in his moses basket alone, and then as he got older his cot. I could always put him down awake but sleepy and know he'd be flat out for the night in a matter of minutes. Naps were the same, I'd put him in his cot as he got sleepy, and he'd nap beautifully.
Apart from the last month. He's suddenly decided he won't sleep. He has to be held to sleep, and even then it's a case of him finally passing out from exhaustion.
MIL and FIL keep telling me I need to 'just leave him'. I put him down for a nap earlier, and timed him, he screamed hysterically for a full fifteen minutes with me outside the door when I finally gave in and went and got him. Within two minutes of me picking him up he was asleep, which proved he was exhausted. I waited ten minutes to make sure he was fully asleep then placed him back in his cot. He woke up and all hell broke lose again.
I mean, how long should I leave him for exactly?! 15 minutes felt much too long to me, as like I say he was really getting worked up, and definitely not more sleepy.
He's had a grand total of ten minutes sleep in my arms today, and now he's cranky, and come bedtime he'll be over tired and be a nightmare to put down again.
The other night DH was in his room holding him until midnight before he finally gave in.
I have no idea what to do with him. Any suggestions at all please?
Apart from the last month. He's suddenly decided he won't sleep. He has to be held to sleep, and even then it's a case of him finally passing out from exhaustion.
MIL and FIL keep telling me I need to 'just leave him'. I put him down for a nap earlier, and timed him, he screamed hysterically for a full fifteen minutes with me outside the door when I finally gave in and went and got him. Within two minutes of me picking him up he was asleep, which proved he was exhausted. I waited ten minutes to make sure he was fully asleep then placed him back in his cot. He woke up and all hell broke lose again.
I mean, how long should I leave him for exactly?! 15 minutes felt much too long to me, as like I say he was really getting worked up, and definitely not more sleepy.
He's had a grand total of ten minutes sleep in my arms today, and now he's cranky, and come bedtime he'll be over tired and be a nightmare to put down again.
The other night DH was in his room holding him until midnight before he finally gave in.
I have no idea what to do with him. Any suggestions at all please?