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Leo and Jamie
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Me and the OH decided to TTC in october last year. I lost my ob ust after and struggled to find another. We, foolishly thought we'd be able to do it even though I was now unemployed
I soon realised that there was no way we could bring a baby up how we were. I have now enrolled on a two year Business diploma and am looking for weekend/evening work (which is not around right now) Ive signed to an agency and ust had a 3 day placement and have to wait to hear if I have anything else. I need to save to pay for college as im am totally broke.
After college I would want to work for a year+ before we TTC. ust so im settled in work and we have money. I also want us to own a house. At the moment we are looking to have a council house but as OH has a 7 year old boy already, we can only have a 2 bed so we wouldnt have space when a new baby comes along. So I might have to work for 2 years to save for a deposit on a house. Argh! there is so much stuff we have to do
Im so upset because we had decided we were TTC and then we had to cancel it. Now we have a 3-4 year wait till we can TTC again. Im only 19 but I worry that its gonna be another 5 years before we can have our baby. I know if I do the course and save up, then our future babies will have an amazing, comfortable life but I want it now
And to top it all I keep seeing beautiful babies and bumps everywhere! Ive also gone back on BCP which I was so upset about doing, as it felt like the final nail in the coffin.
Sorry for the essay, I just need to know that im not wierd and mad and if theres anything I can do to stop feeling like ive lost something? I know it will happen in good time and be better to wait but I dont know if I can wait.
Me and the OH decided to TTC in october last year. I lost my ob ust after and struggled to find another. We, foolishly thought we'd be able to do it even though I was now unemployed
I soon realised that there was no way we could bring a baby up how we were. I have now enrolled on a two year Business diploma and am looking for weekend/evening work (which is not around right now) Ive signed to an agency and ust had a 3 day placement and have to wait to hear if I have anything else. I need to save to pay for college as im am totally broke.
After college I would want to work for a year+ before we TTC. ust so im settled in work and we have money. I also want us to own a house. At the moment we are looking to have a council house but as OH has a 7 year old boy already, we can only have a 2 bed so we wouldnt have space when a new baby comes along. So I might have to work for 2 years to save for a deposit on a house. Argh! there is so much stuff we have to do
Im so upset because we had decided we were TTC and then we had to cancel it. Now we have a 3-4 year wait till we can TTC again. Im only 19 but I worry that its gonna be another 5 years before we can have our baby. I know if I do the course and save up, then our future babies will have an amazing, comfortable life but I want it now
And to top it all I keep seeing beautiful babies and bumps everywhere! Ive also gone back on BCP which I was so upset about doing, as it felt like the final nail in the coffin.
Sorry for the essay, I just need to know that im not wierd and mad and if theres anything I can do to stop feeling like ive lost something? I know it will happen in good time and be better to wait but I dont know if I can wait.