I fought so hard against all the nay sayers that said I couldn't handle the pain and that I would definitely end up with some kind of pain relief. Honestly, now I wish I hadn't fought so hard... It actually took a lot out of me and caused unnecessary anxiety during my pregnancy.
Because it was my first baby, everyone kept saying I was crazy for not going to the hospital to give birth ( I chose a Birth Cottage with a wonderful mother daughter midwife team). I did my research and knew that a natural childbirth with loving care that was given to me by my midwifes was exactly what I wanted.
Honestly having a natural childbirth was the best experience of my life! It seems our nation is so ingrained to believe birth=pain. I'm not saying it didn't hurt but I truly understood what they said when they said it was pain with a purpose. It was the most empowering experience of my life and honestly I can't wait to do it again!
Sadly, most of your friends and family will not understand the decision you have made. What I can tell you, is keep your head held high and don't let them discourage you. You have a wonderful support group right here at babyandbump with women who support you! Nothing but love and support here.
I wish you the very best and if you ever want to talk about anything don't hesitate to message me!
