How to you survive the EDD?

[NeyNey]

My EDD would have been in 8 days....

3rd March.

How do you get through it?
I'm a complete mess, and I only fall more and more apart as it draws closer.
I hate leaving the house and I have completely isolated myself from friends.

How do you cope?
How do you keep on living....
How do you get yourself out of bed everyday?

 

[JASMAK]

Oh hon...it is hard, I know. The only thing I can suggest is doing something. Don't try and make it just "another day". Make it special. Light a candle, plant a tree, go on a special walk that reminds you of peace and love...and make it an annual thing. Cry when you need to and remember we are all here for you.

 

[Las78]

Hun, sending you huge hugs. I agree with Jasmak about making it a special day, I can only imagine how hard this is and admit it is just another day I am dreading. As hard as it is to, try and be strong hun, we're here for you if you need us x

 

[toby2]

making it special sounds a nice idea.....its such a tough thing to have hanging over you, hope you have people you can share how much this hurting you around you
I thought i had been luckly by getting preg again before my edd but unfortunately i lost that baby to so i guess there is no easy answerxx

 

[Lazy Leo]

Oh hunny, I don't know. I found the weeks leading up to it more difficult than the day itself. I hope you find the strength to get through the next couple of weeks

 

[NeyNey]

Thank you for your support guys.

Much appreciated.
I still don't know what I'll do, I like the idea of making it a special day, I just don't know if I will have the strength.

 

[JASMAK]

Thinking of you and I am wondering how you did on you EDD. Keep in touch.
T

 

[nervouspains]

Hi Hun, i feel the same- due 4th July.
I do not not how i am going to cope on the actual day.
OH suggested we go and release some balloons for our daughter.
I thought this was a lovely idea, just to mark the occasion.
I know that in time and hopefully i will go on to have a child, but i will never forget Angel and other babies will never replace her, but i imagine this date will get easier and less painful in time.
xxx

 

[Aidedhoney]

You never forget but its true that time is a great healer, xxx Good luck

 

[buffycat]

i wish i'd seen yourpost earlier......hope you are feeling ok....did it go ok?

my first wasn't as bad as i thought it would be....i kept really busy for the whole day at work......my secod will be in July.....

what has been rough though, is that i gor my bfp a week before my 30th birthday last year.....my birthday is nearly here, and all i can think of is what i had this time last here......a lovely bfp, a wonderful husband and everything before me.....yet now, after 2 mcs.....it's all numbness....

take care though....
luv & hugs

 

[Sambatiki]

Ney ney

I hope that everything went as well as could be expected.

 

[jacky24]

My EDD would have been in 8 days....

3rd March.

How do you get through it?
I'm a complete mess, and I only fall more and more apart as it draws closer.
I hate leaving the house and I have completely isolated myself from friends.

How do you cope?
How do you keep on living....
How do you get yourself out of bed everyday?

All i can say is hun... we just do... we just cope and we just move on... It is hard i know.... Im heading for a second birthday already......
I am sorry i only saw this today as im on a BNB break...
But i hope and pray that the 3rd was in words a blessed day filled with love and tons of support......

 

[broodylocket]

my due date was the beginning of the month, still crying as i would of been holding him/her. i went to the beach and spoke my mind, felt a little better but didnt have the strength to do anything else, only me and my partner knew, but he didnt greive the same as me, he wants me to talk to him but

its harder for us, as we grow a bond with the child. hope it went ok *hugs*