collie_crazy
1 Angel, 1 rainbow growin
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Yesterday I was busy running around doing errands all day and visiting my mum who is in hospital. We were having people over in the evening for a few drinks and a takeaway so OH was tidying the place up. We ended up not having people over and went out to town to meet them instead - when I got home I came straight to bed and when I got up this morning I went straight out. I have not long got home and went into the lounge / living room to sit down with a cuppa - I glanced over to look at Emilys sunset photo and it wasnt there!
I was a bit confused and thought maybe the cats had knocked it off the table or something but it was nowhere! So I texted OH asking if he knew where it was / what happened to it. He just replied saying 'I put it in the kitchen drawer last night, I thought it might upset people when they came tonight and wanted to avoid any awkward moments when they seen it'
I burst into tears. Its like he is trying to hide a dirty little secret! Putting a photo away wont change the fact that we have lost a daughter! Our baby! What was he thinking!? Its only a photo of her name in the sand so not as though its upsetting to look at etc. Am I being irrational?
I havent replied to him because I feel like screaming at him!
I was a bit confused and thought maybe the cats had knocked it off the table or something but it was nowhere! So I texted OH asking if he knew where it was / what happened to it. He just replied saying 'I put it in the kitchen drawer last night, I thought it might upset people when they came tonight and wanted to avoid any awkward moments when they seen it'
I burst into tears. Its like he is trying to hide a dirty little secret! Putting a photo away wont change the fact that we have lost a daughter! Our baby! What was he thinking!? Its only a photo of her name in the sand so not as though its upsetting to look at etc. Am I being irrational?
I havent replied to him because I feel like screaming at him!