Husband talking about me behind my back to best friend?

[special_kala]

What a shit friend and stupid husband.

 

[TwilightAgain]

I'd be angry as hell. If he has a problem with you then he should be talking to you about it. I'd have it out with him and tell him in future you'd appreciate him discussing concerns with you because wringing to your friends isn't going to help.

 

[xxmyheartxx]

I would go off my head at both of them and also questioning why they are doing it, hope your appointment has gone ok xx

 

[sandilion]

I talked to him, he thinks im being irrational and unreasonable and not normal but has agreed to stop.

Thanks everyone, and especially larkspur. He's meant to be getting help for depression and anger issues which is the only reason I'm staying. I have my own mental health issues but I'm going to see a therapist and following self help books so I can heal fast and be the best I can be. He just told me he's too busy to see a counsellor for 3 months now. I'm in the bathroom in tears (if I cry in front of him he says I'm manipulative). I don't know how I'm going to get through the next few months. But leaving would be really hard and he is a great guy without the anger and depression. Sometimes I think I'm going mad!

Im sorry, but it sounds like he is the manipulative one. And emotionally abusive.

 

[gege861]

Really inappropriate!!! I can understand if we was venting to his OWN friend ( bc we've all been there) but your friend? That's a no no

 

[mommytobe11]

You should find a new friend.

I'm glad he's going to stop!