husbands with a fetish?

[wanabeamama]

kinda loving this thread so i have a question my other half is a bit quick not really a prob coz he can go again so thats good, BUT he likes the same postion all the time feet up on his shoulders which again is good but how can i get him to be more experimental bearing in mind that it really doesnt do it for him at all when im dominant i have tried any suggestions????

tell him that your back hurts can you try somthing different or tell him that it would really turn you on if you tried another way or you could buy more magazing and tell him that you would like to try position of the week lol

 

[crystal2010]

kinda loving this thread so i have a question my other half is a bit quick not really a prob coz he can go again so thats good, BUT he likes the same postion all the time feet up on his shoulders which again is good but how can i get him to be more experimental bearing in mind that it really doesnt do it for him at all when im dominant i have tried any suggestions????

tell him that your back hurts can you try somthing different or tell him that it would really turn you on if you tried another way or you could buy more magazing and tell him that you would like to try position of the week lol

kinda did the mag thing well more the karma sutra and his fav is pretty much running the whole way through he loved that, but yeah think i will try the whole back hurting thing and trying something new. its a good job he's fit x

 

[wanabeamama]

kinda loving this thread so i have a question my other half is a bit quick not really a prob coz he can go again so thats good, BUT he likes the same postion all the time feet up on his shoulders which again is good but how can i get him to be more experimental bearing in mind that it really doesnt do it for him at all when im dominant i have tried any suggestions????

tell him that your back hurts can you try somthing different or tell him that it would really turn you on if you tried another way or you could buy more magazing and tell him that you would like to try position of the week lol

kinda did the mag thing well more the karma sutra and his fav is pretty much running the whole way through he loved that, but yeah think i will try the whole back hurting thing and trying something new. its a good job he's fit x

haha i know what you mean my oh always wants doggy style lol god men really do get stuck in a rut haha

 

[crystal2010]

kinda loving this thread so i have a question my other half is a bit quick not really a prob coz he can go again so thats good, BUT he likes the same postion all the time feet up on his shoulders which again is good but how can i get him to be more experimental bearing in mind that it really doesnt do it for him at all when im dominant i have tried any suggestions????

tell him that your back hurts can you try somthing different or tell him that it would really turn you on if you tried another way or you could buy more magazing and tell him that you would like to try position of the week lol

kinda did the mag thing well more the karma sutra and his fav is pretty much running the whole way through he loved that, but yeah think i will try the whole back hurting thing and trying something new. its a good job he's fit x

haha i know what you mean my oh always wants doggy style lol god men really do get stuck in a rut haha

yep, if its not broke dont fix it i might have to get really drunk lol

 

[swanxxsong]

Okay, no offense to anyone at all but I am really, really glad my hubby has no interest in anal. LOL. I'm not judging anyone who's into it because hey, we all have our pleasures in life. But I know for 100% fact that I wouldn't enjoy it.

That being said, he truly enjoys when I take him by surprise. For example, he was dozing off in bed and I pretty much just ravaged him without warning - he was really into that. He said the element of surprise and not knowing I was waiting to pounce was a huge turn-on for him. So I'm trying to keep that in mind to keep TTC as stress-free as possible.

So not really a strange fetish or anything, but I know what really makes him crazy.

 

[funkym]

Mmmmh my OH has a thing about tights?!! I thought it was wierd at the beginning??? He likes to rip the crotch bit apart - is that strange?????????

 

[monalisa81]

Mmmmh my OH has a thing about tights?!! I thought it was wierd at the beginning??? He likes to rip the crotch bit apart - is that strange?????????

No I don't think it's strange. I advice you to buy a body stocking. I'm sure your DH would like it as they are crotchless. Mine does. LOL!

 

[funkym]

Mmmmh my OH has a thing about tights?!! I thought it was wierd at the beginning??? He likes to rip the crotch bit apart - is that strange?????????

No I don't think it's strange. I advice you to buy a body stocking. I'm sure your DH would like it as they are crotchless. Mine does. LOL!

Where can you get a body stocking from?????????? Never heard of it!!

 

[monalisa81]

Mmmmh my OH has a thing about tights?!! I thought it was wierd at the beginning??? He likes to rip the crotch bit apart - is that strange?????????

No I don't think it's strange. I advice you to buy a body stocking. I'm sure your DH would like it as they are crotchless. Mine does. LOL!

Where can you get a body stocking from?????????? Never heard of it!!

I bought mine from a lingerie store. But you can google it and find a store online or try ebay, amazon,etc.

 

[mammag]

This thread rocks!! My DH loves to do oral (on me) and he also like to choke me and pull my hair, which is crazy cuz he's so sweet and loving all the time, but when we get down to the dirty he likes to be super dominant, it's okay though cuz I just happen to like to be dominated

 

[jenniferttc1]

Mmmmh my OH has a thing about tights?!! I thought it was wierd at the beginning??? He likes to rip the crotch bit apart - is that strange?????????

Thats not strange at all! But Im betting you go through alot of stockings!

 

[monalisa81]

This thread rocks!! My DH loves to do oral (on me) and he also like to choke me and pull my hair, which is crazy cuz he's so sweet and loving all the time, but when we get down to the dirty he likes to be super dominant, it's okay though cuz I just happen to like to be dominated

Yep, same here. He's so loving and sweet in real life. LOL!

 

[jenniferttc1]

This thread rocks!! My DH loves to do oral (on me) and he also like to choke me and pull my hair, which is crazy cuz he's so sweet and loving all the time, but when we get down to the dirty he likes to be super dominant, it's okay though cuz I just happen to like to be dominated

Gotta have some hair pulling and choking! Its a really good "spice up" to bad my husband hates being slapped and stuff, but he likes to do it to me, only thing Im able to do is scratch the fire out of him.

 

[jenniferttc1]

Okay, no offense to anyone at all but I am really, really glad my hubby has no interest in anal. LOL. I'm not judging anyone who's into it because hey, we all have our pleasures in life. But I know for 100% fact that I wouldn't enjoy it.

That being said, he truly enjoys when I take him by surprise. For example, he was dozing off in bed and I pretty much just ravaged him without warning - he was really into that. He said the element of surprise and not knowing I was waiting to pounce was a huge turn-on for him. So I'm trying to keep that in mind to keep TTC as stress-free as possible.

So not really a strange fetish or anything, but I know what really makes him crazy.

I've tried it around 10 times in the years we have been together, and no matter what, i just can't get use to it. I end up crying, and feeling like im being ripped apart! Its so painful. To me it doesnt feel natural. My husband likes what he can't have, im sure if I would do it, then he'll stop asking for it ha ha. I'm starting to think some womens built different in that area, I don't know how they get use to something like that! lol

 

[jenniferttc1]

You know anal wouldnt bother me, but I never could get over how painful it was, I felt like I was being ripped into two down there, We tried a couple times a longggg time ago, and it was just horrible!

you would find it wayyyy more pleasurable than the front but you just have to really relax and you really have to find a good lube maby use the front first to help you relax and get in the mood,
but for a man who has anal as a fettish nothing in the world will turn him on more and you will find that it will make you amaizingly close as a couple too. My OH is like putty in my hands for days after

I tried relaxing, and with a ton of lube, and nothing worked, it still felt horrible. We use to work on trying to do that to try something new. And it honestly felt sooooo bad, like I was being ripped apart. I tried and failed miserably. I always end up bawling my eyes out during it from the pain. But then again, I can hardly handle my husband in some positions from the vagina. Maybe him being to big is why I can't do the backdoor

 

[ILoveMySeabee]

My husband wants to do anal too. We tried one night when I was a little drunk but it hurt too bad he said the head didnt even go in but I was already bleeding (I know TMI)

I read online if it hurts your doing it wrong but he was very gentle and we used KY. I seen Zack and Miri make a porno and it kinda scared me lol

 

[jenniferttc1]

My husband wants to do anal too. We tried one night when I was a little drunk but it hurt too bad he said the head didnt even go in but I was already bleeding (I know TMI)

I read online if it hurts your doing it wrong but he was very gentle and we used KY. I seen Zack and Miri make a porno and it kinda scared me lol

When we tried it, it felt like He went all the way in, but nope he said just barley the head of his penis went in. We used astroglide lube and it did nothing to help. He was very gentle but it just wouldn't work. lol

 

[xsarahxxannx]

ha this thread is awesome.
I did anal a couple of times when I was in highschool with my boyfriend at the time.. and it didn't hurt or bother me at all. (Didn't really enjoy it or anything... but it wasn't uncomfortable).
My husband and I have tried anal twice and it hurt SO bad! I was crying, it felt like it was tearing me up back there! What is up with that? I wasn't tense or anything because I wasn't expecting it to hurt! We used lube and everything, but it was extremely painful. I won't try again now.

 

[monalisa81]

the thing about anal is using a nice lube and don't let your DH move.
spoon is the best position and the woman should do the moves so you know when to stop and breathe. going back to my hole now

 

[mummymurray74]

Ha ha this thread is sooo funny, its really lightened things up for me- thank you girls! I was getting so bogged down and serious with all this ttc stuff, and then i came across this thread and you have had me laughing, some of it sounds very familiar for me!!!!! he he! You are all great, how great you can come on here and talk so openly, its fab! Good luck girls with your ttc and good for us that we can lighten things up and enjoy sex again rather than it being boring ttc, this is the day i decided to get some passion back into our relationship and some hot sex like we were a few months back before i got too stressed out with it all!!!