husbands with a fetish?

[swanxxsong]

My fetish?....hmmm i don't think I have anything to weird. But I have a vibrator that also has a clitorial stimulate on it. Like in the shape of a rabit and I like to use that piece of the vibrator while having sex, it makes orgasims MIND BLOWING!

MY ROOMMATE IN COLLEGE HAD THE BUNNY. I've heard it works wonders.

My own fetish? Hm. I love being bitten. Not omg vampire draw blood, but I do enjoy a nibble or more. Mmm. Just the thought...

I also really enjoy foreplay which, thankfully, so does he. Prolonging things is (usually) just so much fun.

And well, the daring public rendezvous is always fun and thrilling. :3


I also enjoy LOLing at porn. That's not a fetish, I just enjoy watching it while tipsy for the sake and giggling at the silly parts. (I'm talking things like the pornos based off movies, like Pirates? ARR PIRATE HUNTERRRR) I never tried having sex while porn was on because well... I'd probably just get all distracted. Sensory overload!

 

[jenniferttc1]

My fetish?....hmmm i don't think I have anything to weird. But I have a vibrator that also has a clitorial stimulate on it. Like in the shape of a rabit and I like to use that piece of the vibrator while having sex, it makes orgasims MIND BLOWING!

MY ROOMMATE IN COLLEGE HAD THE BUNNY. I've heard it works wonders.

My own fetish? Hm. I love being bitten. Not omg vampire draw blood, but I do enjoy a nibble or more. Mmm. Just the thought...

I also really enjoy foreplay which, thankfully, so does he. Prolonging things is (usually) just so much fun.

And well, the daring public rendezvous is always fun and thrilling. :3


I also enjoy LOLing at porn. That's not a fetish, I just enjoy watching it while tipsy for the sake and giggling at the silly parts. (I'm talking things like the pornos based off movies, like Pirates? ARR PIRATE HUNTERRRR) I never tried having sex while porn was on because well... I'd probably just get all distracted. Sensory overload!

I love being bitten, except on my thighs which for some reason he always does it, even though i tell him I hate it cause it hurts!
And as for porn, I don't like the "serious porn" lol I like the funny ones that are so bad, you just like to watch fo giggles and entertainment. I have to say the best one I have seen was a really big dude, and a very tiny 3 foot girl. ha ha

 

[LauraJoanne]

Me and my DF have great sex but he has one senario that he loves to do all the time (we do it quite often) likes me to start by like pestering him fo sex, me trying to turn him on. me on top kissing and nibbling his neck, putting my hand on this throught and getting a little rough. thats when he takes the control and is totaly domanint. ( my fave thing is having my hair pulled )

 

[LauraJoanne]

Loving this tread. everyones talking so freely ahahaha xxxx

 

[ILoveMySeabee]

oooh After sex I make dh lay down and I get on top of him and kinda rub against him it has to be right after sex when its wet.....amazing orgasim lol

ohhhhh I'll have to try that
How did you come up with that?

One time (a looong time ago) when he got done (he was on top) it rubbed against me and I was like " WHOA!!! " So I made him keep doing it but he got tired so I got on top and did it and it was even better

I have no idea how the washer got there lol but it should be there

 

[wanabeamama]

haha just had the convo with my oh lol and we have been through everything possible and its come down to me dressed as a naughty school girl with a packed lunch and in my lunchbox i will have some whiped cream, chocolate, cherrys (because we onced used cherry lube so its kind of a nautghy seacrate turn on) oh and maby a big lollypop haha so we can share a naughty picnic and i will have a school book and my homework i will draw naughty pics of what i want him to do lol
ooooo i think i will save this for when i ovulate to take our minds of it

 

[MissCourtneyP]

My fetish?....hmmm i don't think I have anything to weird. But I have a vibrator that also has a clitorial stimulate on it. Like in the shape of a rabit and I like to use that piece of the vibrator while having sex, it makes orgasims MIND BLOWING!

MY ROOMMATE IN COLLEGE HAD THE BUNNY. I've heard it works wonders.

My own fetish? Hm. I love being bitten. Not omg vampire draw blood, but I do enjoy a nibble or more. Mmm. Just the thought...

I also really enjoy foreplay which, thankfully, so does he. Prolonging things is (usually) just so much fun.

And well, the daring public rendezvous is always fun and thrilling. :3


I also enjoy LOLing at porn. That's not a fetish, I just enjoy watching it while tipsy for the sake and giggling at the silly parts. (I'm talking things like the pornos based off movies, like Pirates? ARR PIRATE HUNTERRRR) I never tried having sex while porn was on because well... I'd probably just get all distracted. Sensory overload!

We're big on foreplay too. He reallllllly likes foreplay, and sometimes likes to really get me going, but not have sex. When we first started dating there was one night when we fooled around for 6 hours, but never had sex. We still refer to that night of "6 hrs of foreplay" and I bug him about it all the time lol. we love foreplay!

 

[Heather9603]

Well DH is into the back door action. (On me, not him, he won't let me NEAR his bum lol) He knows we can't do much anal sex because I have a Hemorrhoids. As in the kind that flares up pretty much ever time I poop and I bleed. So unless I am drunk and really relaxed, anal doesn't really happen! And I do enjoy anal, its just painful most of the time.

Although he still settles for playing around with his finger if we are in like a doggy or reverse cowgirl position.

He's also into the crotchless stockings. Either that or thigh highs stockings. And he's into skirts. Something about doing it with clothes on gets him going lol.

 

[SillyHale]

My DH loves loves when I gag too. And if we weren't ttc right now I'd let him squirt all over my face because he thinks that's hot, but we can't waste any good seed! My DH's favourite position is also doggy style and I think that's because he'd really like to do anal. So far we've only been able to use fingers because I've tried anal before and it does hurt. I can't relax. I told DH if he buys a butt plug I'm all for trying. It's not my thing but I'd do it for him. But I definitely need some help with it. He's even googled ways to make anal easier on me!
Picking my fetish would be tough. I have some ideas in my head that I would like to try but DH isn't really for them I've heard that inserting anal beads into him and then waiting until he's orgasming to pull them out is supposed to give them a mind-blowing orgasm. He's not really for me sticking things up his butt though, even though he wants me to like that!

OH MY, dh has been begging me to let him do it on my face, coming up with excuses that its good protein for my skin! ha ha I finally caved and told him if he bought a butt plug, the smallest one possible, i'd try it. But im not walking in that adult store and buying it! ha ha

Ya they must just want to feel like pornstars or something. I don't know what the appeal is but I'll do it in the shower so I can wash up right away

 

[BeesBella]

Just caught up with this tread and loving it, especially as the only guy I have slept with is my current boyfriend so it's nice to hear other things if ya know what I mean !

My man likes being in charge and ordering me around, I dress up as like a schoolgirl or french maid and basically cook and clean and let him order me around. He also wants to try anal and we have tried to do it before but I ended up bleeding, I kinda like the idea of it too, so when we are back at ours (visiting family atm) I might try it again.

Personally, I love toys =) I have so many different toys and I love using them by myself or with OH. I used to be a lot more confident when it came to sex but since gaining loads of weight I kinda just want it "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am" style. Am desperately trying to lose weight to make my sex life hot again !

For those wanting sex toys, try LoveHoney, they are amazing, so cheap compared to Ann Summers and also free delivery and also Wickedelic is good for outfits ;-)

 

[xsarahxxannx]

Just caught up with this tread and loving it, especially as the only guy I have slept with is my current boyfriend so it's nice to hear other things if ya know what I mean !

My man likes being in charge and ordering me around, I dress up as like a schoolgirl or french maid and basically cook and clean and let him order me around. He also wants to try anal and we have tried to do it before but I ended up bleeding, I kinda like the idea of it too, so when we are back at ours (visiting family atm) I might try it again.

Personally, I love toys =) I have so many different toys and I love using them by myself or with OH. I used to be a lot more confident when it came to sex but since gaining loads of weight I kinda just want it "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am" style. Am desperately trying to lose weight to make my sex life hot again !

For those wanting sex toys, try LoveHoney, they are amazing, so cheap compared to Ann Summers and also free delivery and also Wickedelic is good for outfits ;-)

I know what you mean about weight gain and sex! I have gained a lot of weight since my husband and I got married, and I feel like it has taken a toll on our sex life as well. I don't really feel sexy anymore so I don't get into sex like I used to.

 

[wanabeamama]

Just caught up with this tread and loving it, especially as the only guy I have slept with is my current boyfriend so it's nice to hear other things if ya know what I mean !

My man likes being in charge and ordering me around, I dress up as like a schoolgirl or french maid and basically cook and clean and let him order me around. He also wants to try anal and we have tried to do it before but I ended up bleeding, I kinda like the idea of it too, so when we are back at ours (visiting family atm) I might try it again.

Personally, I love toys =) I have so many different toys and I love using them by myself or with OH. I used to be a lot more confident when it came to sex but since gaining loads of weight I kinda just want it "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am" style. Am desperately trying to lose weight to make my sex life hot again !

For those wanting sex toys, try LoveHoney, they are amazing, so cheap compared to Ann Summers and also free delivery and also Wickedelic is good for outfits ;-)

i say if you want to try anal again you need to get in a really hot bubble bath to relax with just candle light and a glass of wine then get oh to join you and get lots of slippery soap and get him to use his fingers first it will get you nice and relaxed and you will feel nice and clean there too so you wont be paranoid once your nice and relaxed grap some baby oil as mose lubes are water based now and get him to play with you at the front at the same time that should do the trick

 

[BeesBella]

It's horrible, I have gained 4stone (56lb) and I hate it and worst thing is, even OH doesn't seem to want sex anymore, but it's not just sex, he hasn't even attempted to take a picture of me when we are on a day out of anything in ages. I am really bad controlling what I eat so have started on diet drinks for breakfast and lunch (because I never usually eat breakfast) and fruit for snack and salad and grilled tofu for dinner and also drinking loads of water. When I dropped from 10stone to 8stone in like 4 months it was because I had just had my tonsils out and my throat was in agony and I was drinking about 8-10 litres a day so I am deffo gunna up my water drinking !

Thanks for the advice wanabeamama, will deffo have to try that. I think another problem is, I finish really quickly, especially with back passage being stimulated, and after than I just don't feel like it anymore, if you know what I mean.

 

[MissCourtneyP]

Well DH is into the back door action. (On me, not him, he won't let me NEAR his bum lol) He knows we can't do much anal sex because I have a Hemorrhoids. As in the kind that flares up pretty much ever time I poop and I bleed. So unless I am drunk and really relaxed, anal doesn't really happen! And I do enjoy anal, its just painful most of the time.

Although he still settles for playing around with his finger if we are in like a doggy or reverse cowgirl position.

He's also into the crotchless stockings. Either that or thigh highs stockings. And he's into skirts. Something about doing it with clothes on gets him going lol.

I think I might have to invest in some stockings!! Mines got a major foot worship thing goin on (he's never admitted it to me...but I have my ways ) and seems to have a thing for stockings..I never thought of using them in the bedroom though...now my brain is working haha.

 

[Heather9603]

Well DH is into the back door action. (On me, not him, he won't let me NEAR his bum lol) He knows we can't do much anal sex because I have a Hemorrhoids. As in the kind that flares up pretty much ever time I poop and I bleed. So unless I am drunk and really relaxed, anal doesn't really happen! And I do enjoy anal, its just painful most of the time.

Although he still settles for playing around with his finger if we are in like a doggy or reverse cowgirl position.

He's also into the crotchless stockings. Either that or thigh highs stockings. And he's into skirts. Something about doing it with clothes on gets him going lol.

I think I might have to invest in some stockings!! Mines got a major foot worship thing goin on (he's never admitted it to me...but I have my ways ) and seems to have a thing for stockings..I never thought of using them in the bedroom though...now my brain is working haha.

Pair it with a mini skirt, some knee high boots, and a tight bra or top and you have yourself a winner!

I forgot DH is also into spanking me. I don't always like it though, its like 50/50 haha.

 

[KittyMcKeen]

I have been giggling like a lunatic reading this and telling my fiance what I've read because the anal thing is a lot like him! He says he only mentions it because it annoys me but I'm never quite convinced!

Biting my back is a major fetish for him and I love the pain too so it works out well. That and me scratching him. Also, ever since I came home slightly drunk one night, put on a mini skirt and bra and gave him a lap dance that's now one of his favourites. Apparently when that happens my name is actually Candy and I'm a lap dancer he likes to frequent The other night we were just sitting watching tv and he says, quite casually, "not seen Candy in a while..."

 

[Jerenet]

I just had to comment on this because I thought it was really funny My OH and I are both considered "freaks" and are highly active in our local fetish community. So, I couldn't really identify any particular "fetishes" of his, because it seems normal to me...

 

[Ifwisheswere]

Lmao I think I'm the kinky one in my relationship, poor OH was so normal before he met me

 

[MissCourtneyP]

It's horrible, I have gained 4stone (56lb) and I hate it and worst thing is, even OH doesn't seem to want sex anymore, but it's not just sex, he hasn't even attempted to take a picture of me when we are on a day out of anything in ages. I am really bad controlling what I eat so have started on diet drinks for breakfast and lunch (because I never usually eat breakfast) and fruit for snack and salad and grilled tofu for dinner and also drinking loads of water. When I dropped from 10stone to 8stone in like 4 months it was because I had just had my tonsils out and my throat was in agony and I was drinking about 8-10 litres a day so I am deffo gunna up my water drinking !

Thanks for the advice wanabeamama, will deffo have to try that. I think another problem is, I finish really quickly, especially with back passage being stimulated, and after than I just don't feel like it anymore, if you know what I mean.

Water is HUGE in helping with weightloss. More-so than most people realize I think...it's what filters our bodies! What I've done (just to be healthier in general, and get enough fluids) is order water instead of whatever other drink I would normally get. So when I'm at work I have my bottle of water, that ends up getting refilled multiple times a day, and then when we go for dinner I order water, etc etc....it's really amazing how much more you take in without even realizing it!

 

[geogem]

I love love love this thread - its nice to know that everyone has their little things!

Hubby, pretty much likes anything that is a little out of the box, anal, hair pulling etc I do enjoy anal too now we have got the hang of it without it hurting!

Me..... well ..... would it be wrong to admit I like playing with his bum??....

not anything to big but a bit of a finger or butt plug..... he wasnt convinced he'd like it at first but now he goes wild for it.....I showed him!! lol. I think I enjoy it when he enjoys it as its just something a little naughty!!

mind you.... pretty much anything a little naughty turns me on! I love dressing up, we watch porn together and try pretty much every position in the book.

Wow ..... never thought i'd admit all of that to someone,