Hydrocephalus - Updated with: Our Birth Story on Page 14

[krockwell]

Thinking of you and your family hun. Your little girl is so precious, and she knows how much you, your OH and daughter love her.

Much love to all of you during this time.

 

[broody_mama]

Oh darling I am so sorry for your loss, and everything you haev had to go through. At least she won't suffer and didn't suffer through any of it. My condolences to you all and we are all thinking of you at this hard time xxx

 

[xpatchx]

You're an amazing woman. It's not something I could go through. I don't think I'd be strong. I'd break down. Your daughter was and IS very lucky to have you as a mother.

I hope one day you can find some small way of getting over this. I know you'll never forget or "get over it" in a sense...but move past it. She'll always be there and you're allowed to grieve, but I hope the pain at least calms down a bit eventually.

Well done for your amazing story, and for letting us share in her life.

Sleep tight Shaylee x x x

 

[kelly2903]

im so sorry for the loss of your baby girl thank you for sharing your story with us

sleep tight princess xxxxx hugs xxxxxxx

 

[EternalRose]

I have just seen this, I am so sorry for your loss, RIP Shaylee x x x

 

[Naya69]

what a heartbeaking story iam sobbing my heart out for you i just hope today went as well as could be xxxx

 

[shocker]

Im so sorry hun i cant imagine what your going through right now, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family rip little princess Shaylee

 

[BBonBoard]

I am so sorry for what you had to go through.

 

[poppykat]

I am sat here in tears as I have just read your story from start to finish. I can not imagine how terrible this time has been for you.

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious daughter. I really don't know what else to say apart from I am thinking if you and your family at this incredibly difficult time.

RIP Angel Shaylee. xx

 

[SRTBaby]

RIP baby Shaylee, sleep little angel.

 

[LogansMama]

I am so sorry for all you have had to go through. That was by far the saddest thing I have ever read. I can't imagine having to live through it like you did.

 

[hannahR]

God lovey, im so so sorry. Words just dont cover it. You have all my thoughts and love at this very difficult time. xxx

 

[cupcake]

sorry i saw this so late, i am so sorry for your loss. i am sure that your daughter is at peace and so proud of you x

 

[Lu28]

I'm so so sorry for your loss

 

[ellahstruts]

R I P shaylee, she is above the clouds with all our baby angels, i like to think they look down on us all and their siblings xxx

 

[janie0]

I am so sorry for the loss of your angel. You are in my thoughts. I'm sure she watching over you and your family xo

 

[Cupcake Queen]

Sammy

Thinking of you and your baby girl. Your story really touched me - you honoured Shaylee as only a wonderful mother could and I'm so proud at how you handled it all. And she would be too.

 

[lynseyology]

Hi Sammy

I have just read your story from start to finish and I felt I had to write to you to express how sorry I am. We have recently had a disappointment with IVF after our treatment was stopped when I didn't respond to the drugs. I was feeling like the world has ended but your story has totally brought things into perspective for me. I admire how strong you have been and how much dignity you gave your beautiful daughter.

Sending lots of love to you and your family

Love Lynsey

 

[velvetina]

I too have just read your story and am moved beyond words just tears. I just can't find the words, I am so very very sorry. Bless your beautiful little girl and may she be at peace with other loved ones. With love. x x

 

[Sammy2009]

Lynseyology - i'm so sorry to hear of the IVF not working. I think we will go for FET soon, we have an appointment tomorrow morning with the fertility hospital. It might sound soon but when you have carried a baby for 24 weeks and its snatched away so cruelly you only think that you want that feeling, love and bond back. NOTHING will ever replace Shaylee, she was of course unique. I would like to think one day she will try and come back into this world with a better chance and healthy. Thanks for you kind words.

Cupcake Queen - Thanks hun, always a good friend. We did the ultimate for her. We got no help financially and it cost us quite a lot of money but things like that are of no significance when you lose your daughter. I would like to think we made her day so very special for her. You know the most memorable bit of the day was when we released the balloons outside... as they gathered height and sailed off they all stayed together. We watched them for several minutes just flying free. It was then i felt she left, it was almost like they were taking her. It was very emotional and even typing this makes me cry. You never think this will happen to you....

TO EVERYONE ELSE

Thanks so much for you kind words, its still tough but then it always will be. Some days are brighter and then other days are dark. I am just coping how i can at the moment.

Its so nice to think that people just take those few minutes to read her story or offer some support and its very much appreciated. Maybe one day I can help other people, though i hope and pray to God that nobody comes to me to tell me their child has been diagnosed with this condition. Its funny the knowledge you learn along the way in life. I know an awful lot now about Hydrocephalus now, some people (like myself before this happened) don't even know what it is... its normally something you never have to learn about. I wish that had been me but sadly it wasn't. I just hope she is at peace bless her.