i actually can't cope

[george83]

i've just had the worst weekend and this whole entire week is going the same way. I'm so angry at my husband for doing this to me, looking back time wise all his problems started before i even fell pregnant so why didn't he say then that he didn't want to try and why does he get to just walk away and leave me to deal with all the s**t. the amount of people i've had to deal with ebcause he's got me into debt is just embarrasing. i have spent everyday since friday in tears and i'm fed up of it. I want to curl up into a ball and die

 

[dustbunny]

Nooooo..... big hugs

Men just suck, end of. Everything will seem so pointless and shit right now but give it time, keep in mind what an asshole he has been. Note down what debts you owe and formulate a repayment plan, do not try and overdo how much you can repay.
He has walked away because, as a man, it is far easier to walk away from a pregnancy than it is for a woman... that is not being sexist it is being realistic. But come the end you will have a beautiful LO and be so much stronger.

You can cope, you will becoming amazingly strong from all of this.

 

[QuintinsMommy]

 

[Mammy2Joojx]

big hus stay strong xx

 

[Ginger84]

I think its ok to be angry and upset its all part of the grieving process, i dont know your story but i can certainly sympathise with your emotions. Men get the choice to walk away, we dont and usually we are left to deal with all their crap aswell as handle being pregnant/alone with a baby and emotional. But as someone who has come out the other side a year later, it does get eaiser and it will make you a stronger person.

 

[teal]

Sending you massive hugs xx

 

[Cazamatazaaa]

I know exactly how you feel, me and my ex partner tried for our son, he wanted our baby so much, probably even more so than me, he was a arse all throughout my pregnancy and i should of known, but i just wanted to try for our little boy. he left me when ollie was just a few weeks old, he came back and stayed a few more months, and i had enough and told him to go.

im in so much debt because of him, and i still love him more than life and want to work it out. i think im a fool