I am completely devastated and lost .... Not sure where to turn so here I am ...
It's been 6 weeks since I have buried my daughter, and I have visited her resting place daily..... Well, the cemetary told me that her marker should have ready this week and placed so I have been looking so forward to seeing it... So, I just KNEW tonight would be the night, I raced to my children's daycare and grabbed them and we bolted out to see if it's there....
As I pull in I notice it did look a lil different and the closer I got the more I see , yes it does look different.... They came out and cut the grass in the baby garden and when they did, they completely cleared out everything!! Yes, EVERYTHING! They pulled all her pretties, flowers, angels, solar lights.... EVERYTHING out of the ground and threw them all away!!! When I walked up to her grave, it was just a mound of mud! I am so sick! Completely at a loss... I immediately raced up to the office, but of course they are closed so I call.... No answer ... But I remembered the lady that helped me gave me her card, thank God I kept it cuz it had her cell phone number on it! I didn't care it was after hours, I immediately called.... As I tried to speak and explain what I found tonight I fell apart.... I just sobbed..... And then, all she could say was "She was sorry, they hired a new mowing crew and that when she got there tomorrow she would look around and see what all they could find!" .... Seriously???? I don't care one shit about any of the items, it's just the idea! That is OUR sacred place, the only place I can go to visit my daughter and bring her things... I go everyday... And then they just pull everything up and throw it away like it's just crap trash along the side of the road......
I just can NOT believe this.... I feel like I have NO place now... I am so lost ... Feel like they just thought "Oh well" ... Like Emma was looked over again... My god... She's my daughter .... My daughter had a beautiful lil garden, with lil trinkets, angels, lady bugs, flowers, a trellis....So many beautiful lil things that we took to her and now all she has is a mound of mud .....
I clung more and more to that place, ecspecially since this coming Monday, August 15 was my due date with her!! I already planned on have a lil gathering for her to bring more flowers & release some balloons for her but I am so devasted..... I can't even begin to explain the pain, the lost feeling that I have....
I can not believe this....
It's been 6 weeks since I have buried my daughter, and I have visited her resting place daily..... Well, the cemetary told me that her marker should have ready this week and placed so I have been looking so forward to seeing it... So, I just KNEW tonight would be the night, I raced to my children's daycare and grabbed them and we bolted out to see if it's there....
As I pull in I notice it did look a lil different and the closer I got the more I see , yes it does look different.... They came out and cut the grass in the baby garden and when they did, they completely cleared out everything!! Yes, EVERYTHING! They pulled all her pretties, flowers, angels, solar lights.... EVERYTHING out of the ground and threw them all away!!! When I walked up to her grave, it was just a mound of mud! I am so sick! Completely at a loss... I immediately raced up to the office, but of course they are closed so I call.... No answer ... But I remembered the lady that helped me gave me her card, thank God I kept it cuz it had her cell phone number on it! I didn't care it was after hours, I immediately called.... As I tried to speak and explain what I found tonight I fell apart.... I just sobbed..... And then, all she could say was "She was sorry, they hired a new mowing crew and that when she got there tomorrow she would look around and see what all they could find!" .... Seriously???? I don't care one shit about any of the items, it's just the idea! That is OUR sacred place, the only place I can go to visit my daughter and bring her things... I go everyday... And then they just pull everything up and throw it away like it's just crap trash along the side of the road......
I just can NOT believe this.... I feel like I have NO place now... I am so lost ... Feel like they just thought "Oh well" ... Like Emma was looked over again... My god... She's my daughter .... My daughter had a beautiful lil garden, with lil trinkets, angels, lady bugs, flowers, a trellis....So many beautiful lil things that we took to her and now all she has is a mound of mud .....
I clung more and more to that place, ecspecially since this coming Monday, August 15 was my due date with her!! I already planned on have a lil gathering for her to bring more flowers & release some balloons for her but I am so devasted..... I can't even begin to explain the pain, the lost feeling that I have....
I can not believe this....