i dont no wot else 2 do....!!!!

[~PurpleSky~]

hey guys.

am gonna go on abit sorry, but i have this mates who ive been bestmates wiv 4 8yrs since i was 15, i luv her 2 bits, she got pregnant at 16 wiv the cutest little girl!! then she had a another baby at 18 whicj was a boy at 19 she married the father 2 her 2 kids who she was wiv 4 7yrs (but shes lways cheated on him and always had a rocky relationship) shes now 21

they split up last yr after he found ut she was cheating on him, since they split she has gone off the rails!! shes out 3 times a week! taking drugs and sleeping around! this isnt gud 4 her kids and the dad has told her hes takin her 2 court 2 try n get the kids as shes a unfit mother,

her daughter has just started skool (shes 4) and shes still in nappies!! and the young boy is 2 and cant even use the potty!! she doesnt have a job and hes home alday her siter was worried about her and asked me 2 have a word wiv her,

i sat her down n had a heart 2 heart with her stayin she needs 2 sort her head out and stay in more she sud wanna settle down 4 her kids, she told me she doesnt like who she is anymore and she nos shes changed (which she is has and shes not a very nice person at the mo) i said i wud stay in wiv her at the weekends (leaving me oh at home) and we can do it 2gether! i just remember the person she was and i can turn my back on her!! shes gettin a rep and she mite not care wot ppl say about her but i do!!! i no shes a nice girl! anyways i really fort she has listened 2 me and i was sooo proud of her 4 admitting she needs to change, i go on facebook 2day 2 find shes planning on goin out at the weekend

sshe cudnt even make it 1 weekend am so hurt n dissapointed wiv her i fort she wanted 2 changed i comment on her faceobook sayin "wot happened wiv u stayin in this weekend"? and she put "i cant get rid of the party girl in me ive tried not worked" and i put back "u arent tryin hard enuff" and she put back alrite mum!!
i cant watch her do this anymore i luv her but shes no gud 4 me
wot shall i do guys?? and sorry 4 goin on!!

thanx 4 listen

 

[Lynda09]

You can't help her unless she asks you too I suppose all you can do is be there for her and her kids. She maybe finding it hard being a single mum and going out let's het forget about it and act like she doesn't care or maybe it's covering up for something else?

Lynda