I feel broken and lost....

[lauraperrysan]

Some of you may know I suffered my 3rd miscarriage last week all within the last 14 months. All 3 happended very early between 4 and 6 weeks.
The 1st 2 times I was scanned and offered a check up, but the last time I was told to go home and rest for 10 days and see what happens. I was offered no support or help and I just feel so sad and confused.
I have booked an appointment with my doctor for tomorrow to ask for testing to see why this keeps happening to me. I am only 21 and it just seems so unfair. I have no other medical problems i'm aware of so this is really hard to accept.
My oh doesn't really fully understand what multiple miscarriages could mean. I have a daughter who is 2 so I dont understand why now??
I live alone with my daughter and every evening i find i'm just crying....
My parents split up 10 months ago after 24 years together and neither of them know about any of this. They wouldn't understand and aren't exactly the doting grandparents. I have only told 2 friends and my partner of course but I feel I need answers.
I know no one here can do that but i just need to talk and let it all out.
I have heard of Lesley Regan in London who helps woman who have had multiple miscarriages however if I ask my gp would she refer me straight away or do u think i would have to really push it??
I'm sorry for anyone who has ever suffered a m/c and hope you never feel the pain of loosing mulitiples.
xx

 

[Barneyboo]

Hello so sorry for all your losses!

I am at the moment having my 3rd miscarriage I also have a little boy who is 5. Tomorrow I am going to have my bloods done to check for HCG and then get my referral letter, it doesn't matter your age 3 m/c are classed as recurrent and should be investigated!

good luck and I hope you get the answers you are looking for x x x x

 

[Peach Blossom]

I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope you find the answers soon.

 

[honeybunch2k7]

 

[Naya69]

didnt want to to r and r but i cant imagin what your going through but i hope you get the answers you need and find the light at the end of the tunnel xxx

 

[Nicki2202]

so sorry 4 u xxxx

 

[toby2]

hope you get the investigations and support you need- i have a little boy and have had two m/c in the last six months-it does seem hard to understand how you can have ahealthy preg and then this but it seems it does happen. I dont know whether its better or worse just to think its bad luck or if at least there was a reason maybe something could be done?if you see what i mean...
its tough being on your own when you are going through something like this so i am glad you are here as its really helped me

 

[Chilli]

You sound very alone at the moment, I wish we could all meet up and have coffee instead of being on the screen, but all I can say say is I'm thinking of you and you let it out as mcuh as you need to. I've recently had my first mc, and I think people like you must be so strong to survive this more than once. You deserve and should demand to get more support from the medical professsion - this is so unfair. I wish I could give you a great big hug and make you a cup of tea while we chatted. Take care and let us all know how you get on