I feel like such a stupid teenager.

[bsd]

Thank you so much!
I just know the first thing they'll do is ask for a DNA and try convincing him to leave me. And I will literally punch his mom in the face!

If he's old enough to have sex, he should be old enough to take responsibilities for his actions! His Mother should be teaching him that!!!

 

[jozylynn896]

Ugh! THANK YOU!!
I tell him he is 19 years old and he needs to own upto his responsibilities! I love him so much but damnit have some care for your freaking son!
He works in 2 law firms and is going to school. He is so smart at money wise all set. But he's just like a headless chicken when it came to this. :/ sigggh.
And then what really gets me is we used NO type of protection. At all. Every once in a while we'd use a condom. But other than that NOTHING. So we both knew the consiquences

 

[bsd]

Men are so ridiculous! Its so frustrating how they think it's not their responsibility because it's the girl who is pregnant and has the baby. My OH and I were talking about what would happen if our son gets a girl pregnant when he's 16 and my OH literally said, "We'd just grab our son and run." (meaning move somewhere far away).
I'm like, NO! Are you fucking kidding me!? Just because the girl is the one who holds the baby doesn't make it any less our SON'S child!!! I was so pissed at my OH for saying that.. stero typical guy running from the responsibility of a baby. makes me so mad!

 

[jozylynn896]

I know!
I mean I love my OH but he's something else. :/
He's been acting different lately. In another post I wrote about how LO won't kick for any one but me. But a couple of days ago, OH felt him kick and he was like O__O.
Lol! And I think now he sees there IS a person in there! A moving kicking punching HUMAN BEING. Its not just something that's gonna go away, its a HUMAN BOY!
I just love that now he's realizing it.
Before when he left my house, hed give me a kiss and leave. Now he gives me a hug a kiss and our little boy a kiss and a good night. I think he's starting to get it now :"") and it really feels so good!

 

[bsd]

Thats awesome I hope it only gets better!
People say that woman just love their child from the moment they find out they're pregnant and some guys have to literally hold their child to feel the same love. So I bet that it will get better and better!

 

[jozylynn896]

I know! When I first found out I was sooo happy! I never once thought about how I'm still a teenager!
But I guess naturally as the woman, I worry about MOTHERING the baby. Feeding him, loving him. Whereas the man thinks about PROVIDING for the baby. But he's getting the point now

 

[bsd]

yep I was the same way!!
I was lucky my OH took to having a baby really well. We both wanted to be parents one day so he was just as excited as I was! Glad your OH is coming around