I feel so heartbroken

[MayMay]

I know this may sound cynical but don't men "use" women for sex all the time. I know my OH used to pick up random women just to sleep with them when he wasn't in a relationship. We women say... "they just want a piece" or "they have a one track mind"... but then.. when WE get a one track mind (even though its one filled with love and appreciation) they get all pissy and withdraw. It just seems like an interesting psych/social observation to me. I mean, the roles are kinda reversed here... before it was them giving us backrubs and flowers and saying all kinds of nice things in our ears so they could secure a "fun" night for themselves and now its us seducing them for what we want! LOL! Maybe men don't like the feeling of being "used" (even when they logically know it isn't true) anymore than women do. even if it is for sex! LOL!

 

[Waiting2bMommy]

My OH gets that way sometimes... but we were making the 'baby making process' out to be like work and he hated it. Now we just have fun with it and it helps him relax and enjoy it and he wants to do it all the time now. Hope things work out! Best of luck! ::Hugs::

 

[Pux]

The word for today is: PORN
All I have to do is order a pay-per-view or get a tape and it's "boom-chicka-wa-wa" time for me! (Plus I dont tell him when I'm o-ing. 3 months ago he couldn't do the deed if he was at gun point)

 

[Waiting2bMommy]

The word for today is: PORN
All I have to do is order a pay-per-view or get a tape and it's "boom-chicka-wa-wa" time for me! (Plus I dont tell him when I'm o-ing. 3 months ago he couldn't do the deed if he was at gun point)

hahahaah love it!

 

[ktsl123]

Maymay I think that is depending on the guy. I was actually my husbands only sex partner. If I say lets have sex or whatever word I feel like using. He is like "no, lets make love" even if the type of sex we want to have is the opposite of romantic.....if you know know what I mean