I got so depressed today

[faith_may]

Today the sister of one of my friends call me and told me that my friend (her sister),had another baby,I got depressed because this is baby nº5 she has and I also got depressed because the baby was born on February 2, I didn't even know that she was pregnant, that got me mad, becauase she didn't tell me. But right now what gets me mad and depressed is that she's 23 and already has 5 kids (she had twins the first time when she was 19, then had another baby at 21, another at 22 and now another at 23) it makes me feel sad because she has 5, not planned, she never tried to get pregnant, she just gets pregnant, and all I want is ONE, I don't ask for much. It's not fair, I know I haven't been trying much longer like many of you have, but it just gets me mad that she gets pregnant so fast and easy and I can't get pregnant
My DH told me that I shouldn't call her, first because he knows I'm going to get even more depressed and mad, and second because she was suppose to be my friend and she didn't even call me to tell me she was pregnat and she didn't call me to tell me she had, yet, another baby.
I don't know what to think, I don't know what to do, I'm mad and depressed and sad.

 

[NeyNey]

Oh sweetheart. I'm not sure what you should do, I will leave that up to you, just wanted to offer some hugs

 

[Samo]

lots of sweetie. take care of yourself.

 

[faith_may]

Thanks girls, I really appreciate all the support.

 

[xclairex]

oh honey you will have your bean soon xx

 

[Mervs Mum]

 

[HAYS]

sorry hun, thats abit harsh of your mate not to tell you, but please dont let it get you down,its hard but you have to have positive thinking
xx

 

[Vickie]

 

[buffycat]

stay strong.....

everyone around me seems to be having babies, several were 'unplanned' too....one friend even said to me the other day

- "have you thought about extending your family yet - getting pregnant really isn't as difficult as people say you know"

seeing ithers around me this last month has really tormented me, and made me cry atthe sllightest thing.....

try and smile.....

 

[Arcanegirl]

 

[Amanda]

Mum told me last night that her best friends DIL is pg with their 3rd - unplanned. They only wanted one child, and can't cope with the two they've got! They're always ringing the parents asking them to look after the 2 LO's for a couple of hours so they can catch up on their sleep!!!

Why not me??! That was all I was thinking.

Your reaction is perfectly normal Faith_May. It will happen for all of us TTCers, SOON!

 

[suzan]

Oh sweetie, please take care of yourself. I am sorry u r feeling so sad We all pass thru times like that

 

[diva4180]

 

[pinkmommy]

It is hard to watch people you know have babies even harder when the friend did not tell you about it. I would stay way for a while.

 

[TrixieLox]

I totally understand. Big hugs honey! x

 

[miel]

i am very sorry ...i feel you.
sending big big kisses...

 

[Lazy Leo]

Hey, that's really tough. I don't know, what to say to you but wanted to send you a