yazoo
Mummy of girl & angel boy
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So, today was my first day going to the local shop on my own. I was nervous but thought ok I can do this. No-one has ever said anything to me anytime I was in with OH or DD so I said I'd chance it.
All was going well and I got to the check out and the lady said really happily "how's the new baby doing?". I wanted the ground to open up and swallow me. I really didn't know what to say. How could I explain this to a lady that I didn't know personally but only knew to say hello to and there was loads of people behind me at the checkout. I think I replied I don't have a baby and she said oh was it your sister that was pregnant?
My face was bright red at this stage and I said no it was me but I lost the baby. The poor girl. I could tell she wanted the ground to swallow her too and she kept saying sorry. I told her it was ok and quickly got my things and left. It was really really awful. My legs were like jelly, my heart was racing and I was bright red. I got to the car and nearly hit into a pole then reversing out. lol.
That question was the reason I refused to go the shop on my own and the day I felt brave enough to go I was asked it. I think this will set me back massively as I'm so afraid of being asked it again.
I also feel so so bad about saying I don't have a baby. How could I say that? I did have a baby but he died and I feel like I have let him down.
All was going well and I got to the check out and the lady said really happily "how's the new baby doing?". I wanted the ground to open up and swallow me. I really didn't know what to say. How could I explain this to a lady that I didn't know personally but only knew to say hello to and there was loads of people behind me at the checkout. I think I replied I don't have a baby and she said oh was it your sister that was pregnant?
My face was bright red at this stage and I said no it was me but I lost the baby. The poor girl. I could tell she wanted the ground to swallow her too and she kept saying sorry. I told her it was ok and quickly got my things and left. It was really really awful. My legs were like jelly, my heart was racing and I was bright red. I got to the car and nearly hit into a pole then reversing out. lol.
That question was the reason I refused to go the shop on my own and the day I felt brave enough to go I was asked it. I think this will set me back massively as I'm so afraid of being asked it again.
I also feel so so bad about saying I don't have a baby. How could I say that? I did have a baby but he died and I feel like I have let him down.