I guess this is where I belong now

[anita665]

I feel sad not being pregnant anymore and not having all the excitment of it all but OH & I want another little blobby so I guess this is where I should be.

I wanted to wait quite a while but OH doesn't and with a collection of problems suddenly arrising which I'm scared will affect my fertility I don't think we will leave it too long. I don't want years to go by before trying again, only to realise we can't.

 

[Sambatiki]

Hi Anita,

Welcome to the baby waiting room!!!!

Kerry x

 

[owo]

welcome.

 

[maccy]

Hello welcome to this section. x

 

[LeaArr]

Welcome.

 

[Jewels]

Welcome Anita!

Best of luck and lots of when you are ready to TTC again!

 

[Lazy Leo]

I don't quite know where this went but my reaction is 'isn't this the 'waiting' to try' section?

Anita's baby is a month old and she is 'waiting' to try again. Not actively trying.

Wobbles - completely agree with the action you've taken here xx

 

[anita665]

I know I'm lucky and it's having my L.O. now that makes me realise how gutted I'd be if I didn't have the chance to do this all again in the future. I'm only waiting to try - it's not like I'm already trying to get pregant again.

 

[Wobbles]

So what if you were TTC now sweetie!!! You do what right for you - we're going for #2 & Caitlin is 6 months old and under no doubt that 2 would be hard work close together ...that would suit some people whist it may not suit others based on personal choice, life styles, jobs etc. we decided its what we want & it suits would fit in with our life/life style.

Best of luck hun if it be now, near future or distant future! Could end up buddies

 

[Lazy Leo]

I know I'm lucky and it's having my L.O. now that makes me realise how gutted I'd be if I didn't have the chance to do this all again in the future. I'm only waiting to try - it's not like I'm already trying to get pregant again.

Don't let anyone make you feel bad hun, it's your choice, I know someone who got pregnant 6 weeks after having her baby despite breastfeedng and being 'careful'. OK, so it wasn't quite intended but she's managing fine. Follow your own instincts hun and good luck when you do start trying again, we all know there's no waying of knowing how long it might take. Look after yourself xxxx

 

[Mamafy]

I know I'm lucky and it's having my L.O. now that makes me realise how gutted I'd be if I didn't have the chance to do this all again in the future. I'm only waiting to try - it's not like I'm already trying to get pregant again.

hey hun you dont have to explain your life decisions to anyone, alot of us have indeed lost babies and had babies and are patiently trying to have babies and I know within a week or 2 of having my baby girl I said that I could indeed do it again and that was BECAUSE I experienced such love.

So hun I wish you well in everything you do and remember your life, your choice we are here only to support and if we cant do that we shouldnt post at all.

 

[Wobbles]

2 user accounts have now been disabled unless the contact us button is used and a public apology is made as requested.

 

[polo_princess]

Who cares if you TTC for another after 1 month or 1 year ... whatever is right for you and your family hun, im sure Pierre would love a little plamate!!

 

[jolyn]

Hey hun, u do as u feel in right for u. I know how u feel - after having DS I missed being PG and it may sound selfish, but I wanted to feel it again - in fact we tried (unofficially) for about 6 months, but then circumstances changed and we decided to wait a little while.

My SIL has two little girls, both unplanned and there's only 16 months between them, she is only 22 and copes brilliantly with them, they're now 4 and 2 and she wouldn't change them for the world.

Only u know when is right to have another baby and what problems u will have to overcome to get PG, good luck hun

 

[baby.love]

First congrats on your baby, secondly you have to do whatever is right for you! only you know how you feel and what is right for you!

 

[princess_bump]

I completely agree with the last few posts - this is your right to ttc whenever u and ur partner think its right. i would like to wish u all the luck in the world Anita. and the same goes to ALL other's waiting or trying to concieve.
I'm just glad this is a place of support and although everyones entitled to there opinions I love this site as these opinions r always respected.

 

[xXx Vamp xXx]

Hey hunnie, I just wanted to say welcome to the site, congrats on the new baby and good luck for the future :0D

 

[Wobbles]

The main negative posts have now been removed - thought I'd mention it incase some things don't make sense

 

[golcarlilly]

I would like to make a public apology for my posts (which have now been removed) I should have put my brain into gear before opening my mouth and I am truly sorry for being insensitive, the only reason I have are my own emotions over my m/c but I know that it is no excuse. I really hope that no-one will bear a grudge, this site has been a lifeline for me during my miscarriage and I am very grateful that the moderators have given me a second chance, I have sent an apology to Anita which she has accepted but I just wanted to say how sorry I am to everyone else.

Thanks for reading

Tracy x

 

[Wobbles]

I spoke to you through email - Lovely to see you back on BabyandBump. You haven't been given a second chance I just needed you to contact me as explained in email & realise you had not seen my message but originally it was simply a case of disabling account for a short period.

It is hard *hugs* You didn't have to make this public as I said in email but I'm sure Anita will apprieciate your message & any PM you have sent her.

Wobbles

x