LynAnne
Mum to 2 Boys
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As the title says, I feel like I'm in limbo with WTT and I absolutely hate it.
Our main reason for waiting is that DH still doesn't feel ready to be a dad quite yet. It's a huge responsibility and, understandably, it scares him. We finally have our finances (sort of) sorted and whilst some months will be tough we'll absolutely manage once baby eventually comes along. How we would afford a LO had been a worry and excuse for a long time but now that we are on top of it I'm just waiting for DH to give us the go ahead.
He says we'll be TTC this year but that's as much as he tells me. Some days he hints that it'll be in the next couple of month and then others he tells me that he just isn't ready. The other day he told me "fairly soon" and that he reckons I'll be pregnant by the end of the year at the very least. But last night he told me it'd be "sometime this year." So where does that leave me? A possible date of TTC somewhere between March and November?! I'd at least like to know when!
The thing that drives me absolutely crazy is that after years of avoiding the topic he's the one to initiate them now, talking about names and what we'll do "when the baby arrives" which totally just gets my hopes up, thinking it'll be this month or next. Then when I ask him if/when we can try he just says "No. Not yet." Gah! It's so annoying. I think I liked it better when he didn't talk about babies much
There's no real point to this other than just to have a little moan!
Our main reason for waiting is that DH still doesn't feel ready to be a dad quite yet. It's a huge responsibility and, understandably, it scares him. We finally have our finances (sort of) sorted and whilst some months will be tough we'll absolutely manage once baby eventually comes along. How we would afford a LO had been a worry and excuse for a long time but now that we are on top of it I'm just waiting for DH to give us the go ahead.
He says we'll be TTC this year but that's as much as he tells me. Some days he hints that it'll be in the next couple of month and then others he tells me that he just isn't ready. The other day he told me "fairly soon" and that he reckons I'll be pregnant by the end of the year at the very least. But last night he told me it'd be "sometime this year." So where does that leave me? A possible date of TTC somewhere between March and November?! I'd at least like to know when!
The thing that drives me absolutely crazy is that after years of avoiding the topic he's the one to initiate them now, talking about names and what we'll do "when the baby arrives" which totally just gets my hopes up, thinking it'll be this month or next. Then when I ask him if/when we can try he just says "No. Not yet." Gah! It's so annoying. I think I liked it better when he didn't talk about babies much
There's no real point to this other than just to have a little moan!