I hate checking my cervix

[Jen_xx]

It always makes me feel as though this isnt our month. LOL I don't know why, because I know all women are different. But my cervix is lower than yesterday and softer, so I am anticipating AF to show on time.

 

[HopefulxMommy]

Dont feel bad, I tried to check my cervix and I have no idea what Im doing

I have never done it before and feel kind of silly

 

[Jen_xx]

I felt weird the first time I tried, didn't help that DH walked in on me and looked at me crazy. LOL

 

[HopefulxMommy]

I felt weird the first time I tried, didn't help that DH walked in on me and looked at me crazy. LOL

I am at work, so I cleaned my hands and took my Hand sanitizer to the bathroom and I was sitting there gently feeling and I know I was looking up trying to figure out what I was looking for (you know when you are thinking really hard). HAHA

I don’t know if this has anything to do with it (I highly doubt it), but you know that sick feeling you get in your stomach when you are lightheaded? That’s how I felt. I was very gentle and actually don’t have my nails done this week so they are short and I know I didn’t hurt myself. But afterward I sat there and felt like I was going to be sick. Maybe I was just nervous, who knows.

 

[Jen_xx]

I got a woozy feeling the first time I ever checked my CP. It just felt strange.

I'm at work too!!! ha ha, I feel so weird checking at work, but hey, a womans got to do what a womans got to do.

 

[amoreamy]

Jenn: I can't believe he walked in on you!! That's embarrassing!!

Hopeful: As a rule if you have to reach high up (finger length) its high, and about half a finger depth is low. Hard cervix feels like the end of your nose, and soft feels like your chin

hope that makes sense/helps!!

 

[Marini_Mare]

It always makes me feel as though this isnt our month. LOL I don't know why, because I know all women are different. But my cervix is lower than yesterday and softer, so I am anticipating AF to show on time.

I can never tell what any of it even MEANS! I feel like my cervix is just moving all over the place this cycle its been super high, super low, super hard, to super soft just in the time that I've been late (11days late now) but I got three super + OPKs last week, so I'm either late or on 5dpo also keep feeling like AF is going to show up today... not sure whats going on

 

[HopefulxMommy]

I got a woozy feeling the first time I ever checked my CP. It just felt strange.

I'm at work too!!! ha ha, I feel so weird checking at work, but hey, a womans got to do what a womans got to do.

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I put my middle finger up there like I would if I were going to stimulate myself, I didn’t curve it or anything and went straight back and I went in as far as almost my knuckle and could feel anything  I feel like I just don’t know what I am looking for.

 

[amoreamy]

I got a woozy feeling the first time I ever checked my CP. It just felt strange.

I'm at work too!!! ha ha, I feel so weird checking at work, but hey, a womans got to do what a womans got to do.

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I put my middle finger up there like I would if I were going to stimulate myself, I didn’t curve it or anything and went straight back and I went in as far as almost my knuckle and could feel anything  I feel like I just don’t know what I am looking for.

sounds like its super high to me!!

 

[pinktree]

i never understood it myself, i can definately feel my cervix but i don't know what means what, yesterday mine was really low and today its so high i can barely reach it, i'm 10 dpo today and i don't know if the change in my cervix is because of pregnancy or if thats how its supposed to be just before af.

very confusing!

 

[Ameronica]

Even if your cervix is low and firm you can still be pregnant. When pregnant the cervix eventually moves high and gets soft. This can happen at different times for different women. Ive been reading about it online and a lot of women's cervix doesnt move high and get soft until after they already know they are pregnant. One woman said hers didnt move until she was 10wks pregnant. Checking your cervix is really only good for predicting ovulation, not to tell if you are pregnant or not.

 

[HopefulxMommy]

sounds like its super high to me!!

Thats a good thing then right?

 

[amoreamy]

I think so!! xx

 

[HopefulxMommy]

I hope so!!! My birthday is next month and this would be the best birthday present EVER!!!

 

[Jen_xx]

Yeah, my cervix moves so much on a daily basis I've given up actually taking it's position into consideration. But I can't help feel a little dishearted when it starts feeling the same as it does when AF is to start.

And yes, DH so caught me. So now everytime I walk to the bathroom he says "going check your cervix, need help" lmao! Gotta love him.

 

[ChristinaG]

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I put my middle finger up there like I would if I were going to stimulate myself, I didn’t curve it or anything and went straight back and I went in as far as almost my knuckle and could feel anything  I feel like I just don’t know what I am looking for.

Trymoving to the bacl wall and front wall. Some women have a little "flap" inside. If so, it should be right above that. feel for something that feels like this:

https://www.google.ca/imgres?q=cerv...0&ndsp=17&ved=1t:429,r:0,s:0&biw=1280&bih=644

 

[amommy]

Sure hate when its soft and right there, its a sign AF is close.. and also the cervix turns towards you instead of away if that makes any sense!

 

[dani94]

Mine was low on tues at 8dpo, now at 12dpo its really high and af is due today or tomorrow?