It seems that Monday is a bad day for a few of us.
If DH agrees to try again an we get BFP I think I will stay in bed every monday and not go anywhere.
So need him to agree TTC it is killing me. I am on a real down again the last couple of days, maybe it is because of tomorrow - 4 weeks go.
My DH has said to me a couple of times is there anything I can do, or I don`t not what to say - I feel like shouting out - yes there is something you can do - get me BFP!!!!!!!!
Andrea, how are you now you have AF - hope you are not too upset.
Let`s all hope tomorrow passes quickly. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I thought I was ok with all this, but I have been crying for 2 days. I am not sure why I am so upset, I think I may give up and not try again. I am so scared and with my HBP I am scared something will happen, I am going to be 42 and I can't believe my precious Ava has been taken from me, what did I do to deserve this, i just don't understand???
I will never know what it is to have my daughter with me and to share all of those moments I missed when I was a child that bond I will never have .I must have done something to deserve this.
I feel awful and now her year of death is coming up and I am dreading it. One year has went so fast , but my pain is just as bad as when I first lost her...
XOOXO
Andrea, please don`t be sad, if I was there with you I would give lots of big hugs, but you`ll have t make do with these
No one does anything to deserve having their LO taken away, I have asked the same thing myself, what did I do? It was nothing we did, it is natures way, although very cruel.
You are also feeling more emotiinal at the moment due to your AF, as this messes with your hormones. Also the anniversary of when Ava was born sleeping is also going to be emotional.
You have probably read the poem `An Angel Never Dies` i have taken an extract from it for you:-
"This world was worthy not of me, God chose that i move on.
I know the pain that drowns your soul, what you are forced to face.
You have my word, I`ll fill your arms, one day we will embrace.
You`ll hear that it was meant to be, God doesn`t make mistakes"
i find the words very sad, but also comforting.
One day you will be with Ava and will be abe to give all the hugs and love you have for her.
in the mean time, my advice,for what its worth is you have to try again.
I like you am scared of going through this heart ache again and being back to square one, but if something did go wrong again, then maybe it`s not meant to be, but I need to find that out. At least I will have tried (if DH agrees)
However, things might no go wrong and look at what you would then have, another beautiful little rainbow to light up your life.
To me this is a gamble that is worth taking.
I feel if I don`t try again, there will this constant emptiness inside me and such regret.
After my last MMC I was scared stiff the whole time, worrying something would go wrong, but I now how the most beautiful little monkey of a rainbow, who would not be here today if i had given up.
Please don`t give up, your sadness if proof of how much you need and want this and you have to try again, the risk is worth taking.
Sending you lots of
and i am thinking of you.