I hate my DAD

[mayb_baby]

My real dad not my step dad that is!!

He only talks to me on FB as it’s free, he said to me:
“You and your BF will last 2 months, rows will start its trial time”

So I said “just because you couldn’t make it work” (as he was an abusive cheat to my mum hit her, cheated all the time)

He has hurt me sooo much, literally I mean he’s not interested in my son at all he only cares about him I mean he hasn’t once asked if he could help, be there, if I needed anything! I want him to be a good granddad to my son but now I don’t even know if I want him in my sons life!




HE just IM'd me saying : I expect to see youand the baby here in April for a break away from Tirone my OH

 

[x__amour]

I'm so sorry! I really do hope things get better for you! He doesn't sound supportive at all though...

 

[AngelzTears]

Jerk! What did you say when he said he wants to see the baby in April?

 

[MissWaiting]

sorry hunni i will be striaght with you here i disowned my real dad becuase he is a ass and cant be happy for me and likes to micromanage me and expects me to act the way he wants me to act even thought iam a good person dont have any criminal convictions dont do drugs nothing iam well behaved and all i get is negativity so i disowned him i have no contact with him at all .
honestly your dad sounds like mine in the way he cant be happy for you my advice would be to tell him to either be happy for you and do things your way when it comes to you your oh and your baby or you cut contact as at the min you need support from your family not to be given more stress and pressure from negativity if he cant accept you for you and be happy and supportive then honestly my view is you dont need him.
i get on very well with out my dad and it has made my life a hell of alot easier .
this dissicion thought has to be your own and if you want to stay in touch with your dad then do but dont let him walk over you when it comes to your baby and certainly dont take negativity when it comes to your relationship massive hugs hunni xxxx

 

[mayb_baby]

I let ripp back at him:
I said just because you were a shit part time dad, don't even dare compare your self with my BF he doesn't, abuse, cheat, gamble, hes not an alco or a druggy! Just cause you were a total fuck up don't dare talk of my Bf or even think for a second that he holds any of your poision!

He had a go and I told him straight: ' you see me for 5days every 2years tbh you don't know me or my real family, I want you out of my Life me and my son don't need you or your shit!

I blocked him on FB and now have cut him from my life, hes not worth the stress and he could only cause more harm than good xoxo

 

[AngelzTears]

Good, you don't need more stress in your life and he was just being a child saying bad things to you. Hope you can relax now!

 

[17thy]

Wow... Idk what to say. My dad gets a little mouthy when he gets drunk and says mean stuff every now and then. Like when I was first pregnant he said that all I was gonna do was end up with my mom paying for everything. He cussed me out the night before my wedding.

But I could never cut him out of my life.... :/ Sometimes he hurts me a lot.
And about what you said "You want him to be a good granddad to your son", well all I can think, is if he wasn't a good dad, why would he suddenly be a good grand dad? People are who they are. They don't change for the most part.
Sorry you're having to deal with that though.

 

[MissWaiting]

I let ripp back at him:
I said just because you were a shit part time dad, don't even dare compare your self with my BF he doesn't, abuse, cheat, gamble, hes not an alco or a druggy! Just cause you were a total fuck up don't dare talk of my Bf or even think for a second that he holds any of your poision!

He had a go and I told him straight: ' you see me for 5days every 2years tbh you don't know me or my real family, I want you out of my Life me and my son don't need you or your shit!

I blocked him on FB and now have cut him from my life, hes not worth the stress and he could only cause more harm than good xoxo

good on you hunni if you ever want to rant about shitty fathers jsut pm me i have a list as long as my arm of things that are good topic starters ont hsi issue lmao ,massive hugs hunni and i hope your real dad causes no moer problems with your family

 

[vpeterman720]

I'm sorry you have to put up with so much from him. My dad was an abusive jerk too. But he doesn't even talk to me anymore. So, I think you're kinda lucky that he still wants to be in yours and your babys life.

 

[Croc-O-Dile]

Good for you, sweetie. You shouldn't have to deal with this crap at all. It's not fair for anybody.
Are you with your step-dad? My real dad isn't abusive or anything, he just doesn't know how to deal with life. He's a nomad, through and through, and I can't blame him really, it's how he was raised. My step-dad has raised me like his own since I was 3, so he's Olivia's "full-time" grandfather in my eyes.

 

[mayb_baby]

My step-dad has raised me like his own since I was 4 now I 19 to me he is my only dad nw xxx

 

[Croc-O-Dile]

My step-dad has raised me like his own since I was 4 now I 19 to me he is my only dad nw xxx

Yeah, I know what you mean.
Just remember your son will have a good grand-dad. Your step-dad may not have helped create you, but he helped raise you. So he'll look at your son no differently than he looks at you.

 

[pinkribbon]

From what he's said to you I think you've made the right choice and will probs manage better without him. though, it can't be easy to do.

 

[Eskimobabys]

Block him. my real dad is a loser i have no contact with him and i dont want emmy to either she doesnt need that unstable man in her life.