I hate my drs office :(

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  1. TiffanyF

    TiffanyF Well-Known Member

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    Today I had my last dr appt before my csection tuesday...11/22/11. I have a reg OB/Gyno dr and I love him and most of my dr appts have been with him, he's friendly, listens ete... He's been my gyno dr for years and was my OB with my first pregnancy which ended in m/c at 7 weeks.

    Together because of my sever SPD, he recommended a csection and me and my husband decided that is the best option for us. I am happy and comfortable with that decision.

    Unfortunantly my c-sec is not scheduled with him. because of it being a holiday week half the drs at the practice are on vacation. I strongly dislike most the drs the female drs at the practice are bitchy and cold.

    Today I met a different dr at the practice and first of all when she checked my cervic she was so rough that i started spotting and passed a small blood clot, seems to of stopped now but it hurt :( i'm 1 cm dialated which she said was normal. second, i casually mentioned being nervous and she made a snippy comment "i'd be nervous too if i elected for surgery!" WTF my dr recommended surgery and I didn't take the decision lightly, just because you feel in the 3 minutes since you met me that I should try to have it vaginally then end of possibly needing a emergency csection...no thank you. and don't make me feel shitty about my decision, I've had 12 appts with dr Baron and 3 mts of living with sever SPD pain to make this decision! Ofcourse I didn't say that. But I left in tears. I didn't mean I was nervous about surgery! I was nervous about becoming a mother for the first time not the fucking surgery, shitty comment wasn't necessary.

    Uggg, 4 days left, so excited to meet him. SO TIRED OF MY DR'S OFFICE....
     
  2. Chasesmommy

    Chasesmommy Well-Known Member

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    What a stupid wench! You should have let her have it! It really pisses me off when people act like that to us. We live in a Country where it's completely normal for a doctor to pressure people into procedures using one-sided medical advice. And to top it off, a lot of doctors act like we are the ones with all the information and experience! This bitch obviously has no trust in women and our decisions to decide for ourselves. It says a lot about what she probably believes about herself. She has NO idea what you have been told or what you are going through! Don't be hard on yourself! You have no reason to feel guilty or upset for your decision!
     
  3. tripletsOMG

    tripletsOMG Well-Known Member

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    so sorry hun focus on ur baby he will be here soon. wht is SPD?
     
  4. SpunkyMunkey

    SpunkyMunkey Well-Known Member

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    Do you know which doctor is the one doing the c-section? I hope it's not her!
     
  5. TiffanyF

    TiffanyF Well-Known Member

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    SPD is Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction its where your pelvis ligements get too loose and its incredibly painful to walk, spread legs, get in/out bed. ete...

    The dr doing my csection is Dr Jones, i've only met her once, she's okay. I just wish it was with Dr Baron, but in the end its all about my OH and Me and us meeting our Son, Logan so whatever, i don't care who does the surgery.
     
  6. chobette

    chobette Mom to 2

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    Tiffany,

    Sorry she was so cold, I am having the same problem at my doctor's office. I really don't like any of them at my office. I have severe pelvic pain and a tilted pelvis, but so far they won't even take me on my idea of a c-section. It seems like none of them listen to me. Just remember in 4 days you'll be able to hold your babes xx
     
  7. marshalynne

    marshalynne Well-Known Member

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    Oh man I feel ya... the only person I like at my doctors office is the NP, and she's obviously not going to be the one doing my section. I'm lucky in that I get to see her every Wednesday (that's their surgery day, so all docs are out) but I just have a feeling that it's going to suck come January when I end up having to deal with one of the doctors. It's really just 45 minutes of dealing with them during surgery then I have my baby.. :)
     

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