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I AM HAVEING A BABY AND MY BOYFRIEND KNOWS BUT MY FRAMILY DO NOT wat do i do . i need to tell someone . p.s i am 16 and 15 and half week preg. i need help
 
You just have to be honest. Im 18, telling my parents was the hardest thing I've ever done. But it is all calmed down now. And I only told 2 weeks ago.

Just be honest. It's got to come out sometimes, be brave. Good luck girl.
 
:hug: Good luck hunni. You need to tell her. Maybe take a test and just give it to her - That's kind of how I told my mum - it's easier than saying it. If your mum is clued up she will know what it is, if not when she asks "What's that" just say "It's a positive pregnancy test." and see how she goes from there... It made it easier for me to 'tell' her that way - I didn't have to find the words - I showed her the test and let her take it from there. She reacted quite well - hugged me and told me it would all be okay - I hope your folks can be as supportive for you.

However they react initially, I'm sure that once they settle into the idea, they will be thrilled and will fully support you. BIG big :hug: :hugs: xx
 
I agree, you just need to brave it and tell your family, you'll feel so much better afterwards knowing you dont have to hide it anymore!!

Good luck!!
 
i think my mom knew something was up with me wheni found out i was pregnant. i kept it for about a week to my self and one morning she asked if i was ok so after that i had to tell her, it was hard but i felt so much better afterwards. it will be fine, im sure you have alot of friends who will support you and were all here to help and give advice and reasurance to eachother. good look hun
 
It's not gonna get any easier,you need to just rip off the band aid,go through with it...

It's hard and will be a huge shock for her.This is a huge thing thats gonna change all of your lives forever.

Be strong and tell her so she has plenty of time to adjust to the fact.

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Yeah just tell them. The sooner they know, the sooner you can benefit from their support. :hugs:
 
If you're already 15 weeks...you may start showing soon hun (though it's different for every woman). I had to tell my parents from overseas..I'm 19. You just have to do it and get it overwith. My mum reacted real bad at first and was really upset but after a few weeks everything was okay. You are a part of your parents- they will always love you no matter what, no matter how nasty the situation becomes. I remember how hard it was- the hardest thing I've ever had to do in my entire life. Good luck and we are all here to support you! Let us know how it goes!
 
I agree with what the othergirls said - hope it all goes ok :) xx
 

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