I just need someone to talk to...

[PAM225]

Hello ... I've being married for 3 years and my husband and i have being TTC for 2 years and nothing... I've being to the doctor and he doesn't seem to find anything wrong with me all the test come back good, but at the end of the day i still cant get pregnant....
Its being really hard for me, i feel that nobody understands how mad i feel and all the pain that i go trough... I have a wonderful husband that supports me on everything, he has 2 kids from another marriage and even though he says he knows how bad i feel sometime i feel that he will never totally get it....
I fell sometime that i'm all alone, i'm trying not to get depress but is hard when you have nobody around that is going trough the same thing...
Hopefully i can find someone here that can share some tips with me that will make me feel better...

Thank you.

 

[Rhapsodi]

I've been trying for 5yrs. My provider has some ideas of the issue and we are just now going to get help because I feel like I've done all I can privately. We have 2foster kids which we love dearly. But yes, something is still missing.

Have you made any diet changes or tried accupuncture? I'm also trying to implement natural fertility prescription. Not sure if it will work but I figure it's worth a try.

 

[BabyLoveBump]

It really can be frustrating and I feel like many people do not understand how hard it can be to cope with it. We have been TTC for about a year and I have experienced all of my friends and family having babies (not just one, but their 2nd or 3rd) and I always hear the same ol "it'll happen" but the heartache with seeing negative tests knowing how hard you tried is horrible.

Has your doctor given you any advice on supplements or any procedures you can do to help you (such as IUI) that you can do? Also, although your husband has two other kids things can change in his body so maybe he should get a semen analysis to help pinpoint the exact issue. This would help relieve some stress and you guys could get some answers and find the next step rather than not having an answer...That's the worst feeling.

I hope I helped a little.

 

[Pinkie3]

Hi Pam, sorry to hear of your struggles and I hope you find this website a good place to come talk and get some support. I only joined a few months ago when we were starting our first IVF cycle and the ladies on here were just what I needed.

Its lovely to hear that the hubby is really supportive as this is a very emotional journey for you both. I agree with babylovebump I would recommend getting your husband to have a semen analysis done, you need to know exactly where you both stand before you can make any decisions about what to do from here. I am surprised your doctor has not offered any further advice or referred you to a specialist to discuss your options, I would recommend going back to ask for a referral.

Me and the OH have been TTC for nearly 3 years now and never had a BFP, we had a failed IVF cycle in Sept and have taken a much needed couple of months off baby making, we are getting back to basics after this cycle. Lots of women do different things to help them improve their chance these are the main things I will be concentrating on. Taking his and her conception tablets, using a castor oil pack, fertility acupuncture and generally a healthy diet.

For me Christmas and New Year is always the hardest time of the year, think its the constant reminder of what I want and don't have. Now its over, we can get back to the determination of fulfilling our dreams of parenthood.

Good luck, I hope things get easier for you and you find some answers soon.