PeanutBean
Mumma to B & I
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... Can someone please tell me when it is a pregnant woman's partner helps her grow the baby and push it out?
See I'm endlessly falling out with people on here as they are under the impression that the baby has been grown together. Now your partner might be the most wonderful and supportive in the world (after mine) but you still grew that baby all by yourself. Your OH might've fed you and held you and talked with you about your birth plans and even agreed with you but what did he actually, biologically, contribute beyond the DNA? I am assuming of course the partner is not an obstetrician surgically delivering your transverse lie baby, I would think that would be quite rare...
It would seem I am alone in my world where women should have a birth they want because they want it without needing the approval of the man in their life. If you or your OH want him to cut the cord or whatever, that's fine, but what is wrong with saying women do this by themselves?
I'm not underestimating the importance of a supportive OH, particularly for the emotional and psychological wellbeing of the woman, quite the reverse, but were he not around for whatever reason we women would still grow and birth our babies just fine. I know a snog can help bring on contractions but most women can birth that baby sans snog.
I just don't understand why it is so wrong to celebrate women in this one role in life that men can't do. Why must men be sticking their oar into everything anyway?
Here endeth the feminist rant.
See I'm endlessly falling out with people on here as they are under the impression that the baby has been grown together. Now your partner might be the most wonderful and supportive in the world (after mine) but you still grew that baby all by yourself. Your OH might've fed you and held you and talked with you about your birth plans and even agreed with you but what did he actually, biologically, contribute beyond the DNA? I am assuming of course the partner is not an obstetrician surgically delivering your transverse lie baby, I would think that would be quite rare...
It would seem I am alone in my world where women should have a birth they want because they want it without needing the approval of the man in their life. If you or your OH want him to cut the cord or whatever, that's fine, but what is wrong with saying women do this by themselves?
I'm not underestimating the importance of a supportive OH, particularly for the emotional and psychological wellbeing of the woman, quite the reverse, but were he not around for whatever reason we women would still grow and birth our babies just fine. I know a snog can help bring on contractions but most women can birth that baby sans snog.
I just don't understand why it is so wrong to celebrate women in this one role in life that men can't do. Why must men be sticking their oar into everything anyway?
Here endeth the feminist rant.