motherofboys
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I went shopping with my best friend today. She has a daughter the same age as my youngest son. Because we were shopping together it meant I couldn't simply walk past the girls section. She noticed that I wasn't really paying much attention to the clothes though and said "are you avoiding the girls stuff?" So I tried to down play it. I said "I accepted a long time ago that we will only have boys and that's fine by me so no point in looking at the girls stuff. Besides most of its bright pink so really doesn't interest me. You know I'm not a pink person" Then pointed out a little pale green night dress that I thought was nice to try to prove a point LOL
She must have really taken me at my word because a while later while walking around a different shop she was going on about how she can't wait until her daughter is old enough for mother and daughter shopping trips and for being able to buy her all really grown up girly things like perfume and make up and clothes for Christmas and all these great mother daughter things they can do together.
I know she wasn't trying to upset me, I know she obviously didn't realise that I long for a daughter and to o all those things she talks about but it didn't stop it from stinging.
She must have really taken me at my word because a while later while walking around a different shop she was going on about how she can't wait until her daughter is old enough for mother and daughter shopping trips and for being able to buy her all really grown up girly things like perfume and make up and clothes for Christmas and all these great mother daughter things they can do together.
I know she wasn't trying to upset me, I know she obviously didn't realise that I long for a daughter and to o all those things she talks about but it didn't stop it from stinging.