I literally have never felt so alone.

  • Thread starter Thread starter rubixcyoob.
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I kinda get why your feeling so "alone" because as your amount of friends have been dropping you've always had your OH and he has become your everything, and without him your going to feel sad, pissed , maybe even wanna cry for nothing...it is normal trust me I know that not seeing your OH especially not knowing for how long either will get to you, think if your friends were around yes it would get to you but not to the level you are feeling now..?? i may be wrong....and yehh when you become pregnant young you do start to see your friendships not working and you and your friends are doing different things it's like holding on to a friendship even though you wont see that person that often or when they may invite you out, you just start drifting.....Um shore when your baby comes you'll be sooo happy! and you never know you an your OH could grow so much closer together then you ever have been...but try not to let your self feel this way because once you have had your baby around for a couple of weeks and the whole new baby excitement is over you will feel like this even more and it will be like all you do is look after a baby on demand...even though you think it wont but feeling this way is how some girls get lead to postnatal depression, can you Imagen feeling like this AND having a baby..?? of course you would do right by your kid BUT deep down things may get to you and you feel even more alone and just somewhere you don't wanna be, even though your probably thinking your baby wont make you feel like this..but it's not your baby, it's you and how you feel about things like deep down

even if you don't want too..try to get out there and have other things other then your OH because in the long run it will benefit you soo much more...even if you go out with a friend once a week at least something and i thin it would help if you got to know more pregnant people your age as they will understand and you'll be at the same level unlike some of your friends without a baby...

I hope i helped..I have taken a BIG risk of saying all this to you because i could be wrong but when i read what you said i felt like this was the right thing to say..Good Luck..x :hugs:
 
it will be fine hun, i know what you mean about your OH being your best friend, and the only one who you enjoy the company of kinda thing, im the same, i get very lonely at night when my OH works. but just think you could go into labour anytime now, and you will see him. :) xx
 
I know how you feel.
I also had an argument with my oh today and decided that we shouldn not see each other till the birth. LO is not due till 27th July so could be up to 3 weeks.
Im staying at my parents till the babys born now and will go back to mine when he's here. Are you quite close to your parents?
Ive only just made this account on here bcuz its lonely even though i have my parents i dont have anyone to talk to in the same situation as me.
Im here to talk to if you ever need a friendly chat :)
x x
 

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