i lost 2 babies but find it hard to talk about

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  1. hotsexymum

    hotsexymum mum of 4

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    i lost 2 babies but find it hard to talk about, i just block it out is this bad ? my son how 16 was a twin and i lost his brother , and lost one after him call her kerry ,:cry: but i find it so hard to talk about them , since being on hear soo many people are so brave . i love the babies to bits but it just so hard :cry:
     
  2. JASMAK

    JASMAK Mom of three

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    :hug: Everyone greives in their own way. Some like to talk about it, some don't. Just so long as you have grieved them, and didn't just put it out of your mind for it to one day creep up when you least expect it. I am so sorry for your losses. :hug:
     
  3. Waiting2bMommy

    Waiting2bMommy Levi and Jax's Mommy!

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  4. hotsexymum

    hotsexymum mum of 4

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    thank you so much, i just find it hard to talk about :cry::hugs: there are so many brave people on hear , when i lost my daughter kerry , i was in a bad way and had two other kids but have kept everything i had for kerry in my loft . and always will :cry:
     
  5. applegirl

    applegirl mum of 1 and adopting

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    beautiful little guy hon.
    Sorry to hear about your losses. I don't think this sadness ever really goes away. You should feel comfortable to talk about it - or not, whenever you like. Sending you :hugs: We are here to listen.
     
  6. princess_bump

    princess_bump Happy Wife & Mumma!

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    am so sorry for your losses sweetie, thinking of you so, pm me if you ever need to talk, i can't begin to understand how you feel, but i have a good ear for listening :hugs:
     
  7. Nikkinoonoo

    Nikkinoonoo Mummy to a gorgeous girl

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    So sorry to hear of your losses. I too had a miscarriage before I had Jessica which I rarely talk about xXx
     
  8. Angeldust

    Angeldust Guest

    Sorry for your losses i have lost 8 babies and its heartbreaking :( XX
     
  9. Jkelmum

    Jkelmum Well-Known Member

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    sorry to hear of your losses xxx
     
  10. Mamafy

    Mamafy Mum to 5 & Angel Mum to 4

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    :hugs: so sorry hun xxx

    can I ask what stages/ages were babies were lost? If its too hard to talk about hun its ok...xxx:hugs:
     
  11. hotsexymum

    hotsexymum mum of 4

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    hiya 16 weeks with the twin and 18 weeks kerry
     
  12. jnall1965

    jnall1965 Well-Known Member

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    I too lost my sons twin, in total i have 6 angel babies. the only place i talk aboutthem is on here. people tell me i should be over it now an forget aboutthem and get on wityh my life. but life is not fair.

    sorry about your loss
     

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