babyhopesxx
Mum of 2 boys
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Hi, i just wanted your thought on my 5 yr old son and his behaviour. I don't know if he has a behavioural prob or something else.
Basically the main problem is when he doesn't get his own way. Last night my nephew was round and they both wanted to play with a helicopter and started argueing with it. So i took it away from both of them (if they cant share or play nice then no one has it) my 2 yr old nephew had a little cry but very soon got over it. But my son totally lost the plot and i know children can cry and throw a temper to get their own way but this was way over and above this. My DS screamed and screamed and got himself so worked up. It was late so i know he was very tired so i just got him ready for bed but he carried on crying and was very very upset. I eventually sat in with him and gave him a cuddle and then he calmed down and went to sleep.
That was just one example but every day he wants to know our plans for the day and i have to go through them about 5 times with him and if the plans change for some reason he just can't cope with it and gets very upset. He is also obsessed with the time, he wants to know the time constantly.
He is also obsessed with the computer game 'The Sims'. He plays it a lot but lately i have reduced the amount of time he spends on it. When we are out he runs about and acts like he is a sim and i sometimes get funny looks from other people.
When he was 3 his nursery teacher thought he may have autism but nothing come of that. He is a bit behind at school but usually catches up after some extra one to one attention.
When he can't do something he wants his reacton is totally out of control and he gets so very upset over the smallest thing which can be blown totally out of proportion. When i try and talk to him about it he just says i've upset him from telling him off but he doesn't get the reason i'm telling him off and he can't behave this way.
Do you think he could have behavioural probs or is it something i'm doing wrong? And thank you if you've managed to read this far
Basically the main problem is when he doesn't get his own way. Last night my nephew was round and they both wanted to play with a helicopter and started argueing with it. So i took it away from both of them (if they cant share or play nice then no one has it) my 2 yr old nephew had a little cry but very soon got over it. But my son totally lost the plot and i know children can cry and throw a temper to get their own way but this was way over and above this. My DS screamed and screamed and got himself so worked up. It was late so i know he was very tired so i just got him ready for bed but he carried on crying and was very very upset. I eventually sat in with him and gave him a cuddle and then he calmed down and went to sleep.
That was just one example but every day he wants to know our plans for the day and i have to go through them about 5 times with him and if the plans change for some reason he just can't cope with it and gets very upset. He is also obsessed with the time, he wants to know the time constantly.
He is also obsessed with the computer game 'The Sims'. He plays it a lot but lately i have reduced the amount of time he spends on it. When we are out he runs about and acts like he is a sim and i sometimes get funny looks from other people.
When he was 3 his nursery teacher thought he may have autism but nothing come of that. He is a bit behind at school but usually catches up after some extra one to one attention.
When he can't do something he wants his reacton is totally out of control and he gets so very upset over the smallest thing which can be blown totally out of proportion. When i try and talk to him about it he just says i've upset him from telling him off but he doesn't get the reason i'm telling him off and he can't behave this way.
Do you think he could have behavioural probs or is it something i'm doing wrong? And thank you if you've managed to read this far