i stuffed up *vent*

[missynz]

well last nite i had a rather large arguement with my mother and about a few things in the past that she doesnt like to talk about..like her nearly successful attempt to take her life back in 2001,i told her it still hurts me because i feel i am to blame,like i wasnt a good enough daughter or something..then her husband went to butt in and i told him to butt out..so mum got her panties in a twist and told me that she doesnt care im pregnant and shes not scared to kick me out the door..well i tried to talk to mum today and shes not even trying to talk to me..i feel like shes going to go downhill again and its all my fault i dont need this stress

 

[amandakelley]

Aww, hon. Don't stress out about it. Just try and give her maybe another day to cool off and go back and apologize and try and talk to her. Tell her how you're feeling and that what she's said has upset you.​

 

[stephx]

Sorry your going through so much shit No offence but you definatly shouldnt blame yourself for your mums actions. I know what its like to be around a suicidal mother and you really dont need that stress at the moment... Is there any other family you can go to for some help?

xx

 

[Sophiiie]

I know it's really hard but the important thing is to try and not let it stress you out, it's the last thing you need while you're pregnant. My mum was like this for a while before I moved out, is there anyone else you could turn to? x

 

[missynz]

the thing is that its getting to the point when i dont want to have her in my childs life,shes given me 10days to find a place..and to top it off my cellphone broke today..its just not my day..
i cant deal with this enviroment,no one is talking to me

 

[AnnabelsMummy]

ahh hun, there's probably not alot i could say to make you feel better
it's not your fault, and for her letting you feel like it is, is really horrible, you have to remember that - maybe try and gets someone for you both to talk to?
xxxx

 

[Eabha'sMum]

pet, people who attempt to take their life either do it to make someone feel bad, or because they don't know how to handle their emotions, eiither way the decision is totally selfish, and has little to do with the actions of other.

i dont say that in a mean way, but I am a nursing student and working with mental health at the moment, and a lot when they tell you why they did it, admitt it was entirely selfish.


we are all here xx

 

[amandakelley]

Aww, hon. She shouldn't kick you out. I'm sorry you're having a rough time. Is there another family member, or a close friend, that you could go stay with?

 

[missynz]

Aww, hon. She shouldn't kick you out. I'm sorry you're having a rough time. Is there another family member, or a close friend, that you could go stay with?

no i dont,well not down here anyway.but i might have sorted a place

 

[amandakelley]

That's good! I hope you get it figured out and get that place.