I think I may be going it alone

[SpecialGift89]

Hi ya girls,
I've been monitoring the situation between me and LO's dad and it went completely down hill(not due to me). I haven't heard anything from him in like 2 weeks and he doesn't pick up my calls. I have given up calling now as I left it a week and only tried again today and the phone just rang out. I don't know if or when he will appear and this is quite annoying as I just want to get on with things now and not get disrupted with him coming in and out of my life. This baby was planned but pregnancy and us has just not agreed. We agreed to give each other abit of space but this was on the condition he kept in touch and came to appointments ect. Now he has missed 2 appointments in a row and I have no idea if he will get incontact to come to my scan next tues. I work and have been saving for me and my baby lucky one of us is responsible so LO won't be going without things he/she needs. Some days I just cry and feel so sad that my first pregnancy has turned out like this. I feel abit lonely and vulnerable as when I move out of my mums I will be living on my own with baby. Other days I feel really confident and excited. It's so sad I really wanted my 'perfect little family' but that won't be happening now.
Well thats my story.........

 

[emmie]

Theres gunna be days when u feel diff emotions.... he sounds like a right **** if he does get in contact then tell him exactly how u feel tell him if he is only gunna be there when he feels like it then not to bother, u seem reli confident and strong im sure ur will be a fab mummy to ur LO whether he there or not good luck x

 

[Younglutonmum]

Hiya hun

So sorry to here things haven't turned out as you planned

As Emmie said, different days will bring on different emotions. I'm sure in time you'll mostly be feeliing confident & excited about your new life with your Lo

I know that's how I feel. It took me a few months but now i'm just so confident about life as a single mum!!

If your ex gets in contact I hope you give him a kick up the backside!!

 

[nikky0907]

I will be living on my own with my daughter when she is born.And yes,it scares me too,especially before.

But as time goes by,the confidence side takes over and I am excited that I'll be sharing the rest of my life with her.

Sure,this isn't how any of us in this section planned. We all expected different things and a different path in life...
This doesn't mean that it's bad.

Some of the best things in life aren't planned or expected...

I heard someone say once :Nothing easy is worth doing.